my sisters husband tried to molest my niece, after treatment should she take him back?

Answer 1

NO! Why would she want to? Treatment doesn't guarantee cure. I would not want to subject your niece to having to be around him all the time again. That would most likely be very traumatic for her.

Answer 2

that depends on how much she loves him, child molesters, can change, with the proper treatment, and guidence, they are taught to look for certain triggers in thier personlity, and surroundings, and to watch for them and not to put them selves into bad situtions, if he and her think it would not be a problem then yes they should give it a try, ,, but she should aslo take into consideration, the feelings of her daughter, at least partly.,,,,,,, in todays society, most people look down on or even in disgust of child molesters, ,, though the percentage of reoffenders is very low, most offenders, are those who have never been caught yet, ur neighobors, preists, uncles, aunts, , and the idea of a stranger, molsting a child, does happen though not nearly as often as a close family friend, or family member, ,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,can he or she has no gaurentee, it will never happen again,, probably not,,, but then again u dont have thet gaurentee with any one,, ,.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
As for myself i can speak from experiance, my brother is a convicted child molester, he molested his wifes neice, , he got 5 yrs probation, and yrs of thepory, they stayed together threw it all , sure they had problems, but they worked through them , and today they are the happiest couple i know . people can change,, ,, it is society who does not let them change, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, a person molests, someone, they still live a normal life,, ,, someine kills someone, ,, takes away all they have and all they will ever have,, ,, aww no big deal ,, he served his time,, , sad,, mureders are treated better, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
sorrry so long , i just hate narrowed minded people, who who say everyone can change , and all people deserve a socond chance ,,but, there is no but,, either u believe or u dont

Answer 3

There is no real cure for this problem...there is a 99% chance of his doing it again. Under no circumstance could a responsible parent allow a known child molester back into the house or ...for that matter, neighborhood. No matter what the treatment, there is no cure for this nightmare. Ask any psychiatrist...they will tell you the same thing. Once a molester, always a molester.

Answer 4

I would say NO...the child is probably terrified of him and why put the child at risk again. There are so many other men out there that would not do such sick stuff....you niece only has one mother. I hope one that wouldn't set up the scene for this to happen to the girl again. If she does and it happen's again she is setting the child up for a lifetime of pain.

Answer 5

your niece will always live i fear because of him not to mention so will her mother , and why on earth would her mother want to ruin her child's life any further , not to mention how can that woman take back a man who tried to sexually hurt her child! even after treatment the temptation will always be there and who can protect this girl against a man, the answer is noway hosea

Answer 6

You know I have to laugh at this dumb question. Why would any woman want to even give this man even a slightest thought of taking him back. This man should be put away for a very long time. I can't even think of needing the idea to think of this. This is just flipping crazy, nuts, and ignorant. If your "sister" takes him back then she needs her flipping head examined.

Answer 7

Personally, I wouldn't. Child molesters can not be "cured" it is a chemical imbalance I think. They have asked molesters in jail that if they were released would they do it again and most if not all said "yes"!!!!

Answer 8

you've a daughter to imagine of. is this the variety of ecosystem you want her to be raised in? if so then the in straight forward words aspect you may do is overlook concerning the terrible issues your husband and his kin did. yet in case you want your daughter to advance and stay a classic and healthful formative years I propose you convince the daddy to work out help and if he would not do what you imagine is desirable on your baby. No mom might want to ought to pressure that someone will contact her toddler.

Answer 9

Are you silly yes take him back or put him in jail, you do love you niece dont you ? why would you let some one like that get by with hurting your family.

Answer 10

Oh hellllllllllllllllllllllllll no! Anyone who hurts a child is the devil!