she died of a heart attack. i'm separated from my husband. i feel so alone.
2006-07-04 06:22:47 · 15 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your Mom was a Mother, then there is no cut off time for your grieving process unfortunately. Focus on the wonderful memories the two of you shared and just reflect on how blessed you were to have her in your life. On the flip side, think of those that never experienced the joy of having a "Mom".
There will be times when you're feeling wonderful and something very minor will bring emotions from out of nowhere. Bottom line, you never get over it.
I've had two loved ones leave me through homicide over 30 years ago and even today, something will bring up the fun we shared.
My advice is for you to trust God to get you through this period in your life. The pain will pass, but it will be a hard road for you to travel, but you must remember it will not go on forever. If you have a clergy that you trust, seek their assistance and if you find yourself in a depressed state too often, seek professional help.
Praying for you and take care!
2006-07-04 06:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Matured One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Death comes to us, when we least expected . You are never alone. On earth, we feel lonely and feel that noone cares but us. But she is in a better place, which she has become an angel. I believe once your an angel. You are sign to watch over someone.
She is with you, no matter if you can't see her or not. She knows the pain that your going thru. Pass love ones, watch us grow, learn, live, and be there when we let go. Now she is in a place, where pain suffer no more. Walking and talking to Jesus.
Fate has deal you a bad hand. But we are humans, we must go on. Hearts will be broken, but time will heal all wounds. When we can't bare to carry on any more. We think about the ones, who walk before us. Then we get up and get going again.
2006-07-04 13:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, nothing anybody can say to you will make this better. The only thing I can suggest is to go and do something nice for yourself. Something you normally would not do. My mom is here, but went I separated from my husband I did this and even if it only made me happy for Little while, smiling for that time was nice. Time will heel all wounds until then be strong. Also when like being on here when I feel alone talking to strangers can be good for you cause only the truth will come out cause you never have to meet these people. Good luck and god bless.
2006-07-04 13:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by buster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the cure, but for whatever reason that you are separated from your husband, don't get back together JUST because you are lonely and afraid. There are many people out in cyberspace. Some of them actually need help right on this forum (not those atheist trolls) that just might need your help/know how. By helping others you will help yourself.
wanderer
2006-07-04 13:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard with any loss especially when you loose someone that you are close to and care for deeply. you have to realize that this is quite new for you. 3 months is not a long time and grieving is a process it takes a lot of time and a lot of emotions. i was 13 when my father passed away and it still hurts and i think about all the time. (now im 25) sometimes it doesnt hurt as bad but its always on my mind. just let time go by and let your heart heal
good luck and god bless
2006-07-04 13:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by blondebtch24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. It is going to take some time to feel better, you will never get over the loss of your mother. You just need time to grieve, it takes longer for some than others, you will always have that alone feeling at times, but it will ease up some. Your parents and children are always the most painful to lose. I wish you luck. When you are feeling down,feel free to email me just to have someone to talk to.
2006-07-04 13:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also lost my mom. I understand the emotional roller-coaster that you riding. It takes time and there are many phases in the grieving process. depression, anger, hate, just feeling plain lost in life and not sure what to do etc. Everyone has to go through their own grieving process. Time does help. Take it one day at a time. Some days will tougher than others.
If you need to talk to someone, please e-mail me. I have walked the path that you are on. I lost both my parents within a 10 month period of time.
2006-07-04 13:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Susan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mum died 3 years ago and i cant get passed it even now she was my own eyes my soul now i am alone in this world but one thing i can tell u you never pass but she live in ur heart dont let her go because the pain is ours and in one day will be a nice feeling think of her and love her she is still yours
2006-07-04 13:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needn't feel alone, your mother is still with you...she made you who you are and so she will live on through your actions and attitudes towards others. Try to show the compasion for others that you have for you own loss and then just know that it is her that taught you so well. Best wishes
2006-07-04 13:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard but understand we are Gods property and he's in control people are be taken everyday your not alone in this world we all get lonely turn to God pray hard and hang in there were all on this earth for just a short period of time and all our bodies are going back to the ground where we came from try it give God a chance he'll let you know your not alone
2006-07-04 13:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋