I'm pregnant, and needs lots of help........?

Question

I am 12 years of age and pregnant. I had sex w/ a really nice boy, but my parents don't know. I don't know what to do. I am afraid to tell them both the truth. I am almost 8 months pregnant and been sleeping over my boyfriends house, so the only people who know r my boyfriend, and my boyfriends parents (My parents let me sleep over his house because they know him really well). My boyfriends parents don't really care, but i'm still afraid to tell my parents and giving birth to this child, and taking care of it because I have to go to school. I am worried sick!

The boy that I had sex w/ , is my age. A little older by 2 months.

Answer 1

well, maybe your boyfriends parents could talk to your parents. and if your parents let you stay over there, its like living there so maybe you can stay there and you and your boyfriend can take care of the baby. just some advice, use a good brand of condoms next time (;-) ) if you need to talk, im here for you...i promise. just send me and email and we can talk. im a 15 year old girl, not some creep...maybe we can talk sometime. i know alot of girls at my highschool who have been pregnant so maybe i can give more adivice. my email is [e-mail]

Answer 2

I know it's hard to tell your parents because back then when I was a teenager I had a health problem and I was scared to death to tell my mom. I know that it would not be the case, but luckily i treated it myself and got better and she never knew. But that was my life and I'm 25 now. You, I know it's hard, but what job are you going to get? Even if you did, it will not be near enough to support you and that newborn. Where will you stay? How old is that boy? You think his parents will still keep supporting you by staying there even after you have the baby? Honey, I know that you will love the baby, but you are dealing with grown-up issues and u r no way near ready for this. Believe me and you, being pregnant is already enough trouble as it is, next telling your mom will be the next news. I'll pray that she'll take it a little easy and realize her mistakes she made by one, letting you sleep over at a boys house. I don't care how much she knows him. She should have known that there would be a possibility of you having sex and getting pregnant. So, she can't put all the blame on you, it will not be fair at all. Tell mom. TELL MOM. And second, please, please GO TO SCHOOL. NO education equals welfare, bad neighborhoods, crying, pain, anger, no money, little money, alone, hurt, and so on. Please get that education, talk to god, then talk to mom, because it was just a mistake. Just don't do that mistake again. Wait till you are very mature, independent, financially good, then have more babies if you want, but without education and common sense, your life will be in pain.

Answer 3

First of all I don't believe any of this . Secondly if you are 12 and 8 months pregnant you should be scared. You have had no prenatal care and there is a reason it's called Labor pain and not vacation. Finally if anyone should be scared it should be his parents who can expect at the very least a physical assault from your parents and at the most prison time for contributing to the deliquency of a minor.
However, as I said I don't belive you . Grow up and find something better to do with your time .

Answer 4

U really need 2 discuss this with ur parents. How could they not have noticed that u r pregnant. The mere fact that they let u sleep over at ur bf's house suggest that they know that ur sexually active so they should not b that surprised at the consequences. U r 2 young 2 b a mother. U haven't even begun 2 live ur life. But good luck anyway.

Answer 5

Speaking from one who has been in the situation I was 14 yrs old and 7 months pregnant before i told my mom. At first she took it really hard cried and cried but was there for me no matter what, that is what parents are for.the next day we was at walmart shopping and buying baby things and putting stuff on layaway i ended up having my little boy at 8 months but he is just fine and well now he is 5 yrs old and the best thing that ever happened to me it is tuff and hard but if you really want and can take care of this baby just hang in there. It will all work its way out. I finished school early had to get my GED and moved out on my own at 17yrs of age got 2 jobs and found the love of my life. Now we have a beautiful baby girl who is 17days old. If you really need someone to talk to email me and i will be more then happy to hear and try to answer as much as i can.
Good Luck.

Answer 6

WOWY! that is a problem! i dont really have ne advice for u though. i dont really believe this question though, becasue ur parents wouldnt let u sleep over his house for 8 flippin months! but, if it is true, u need to tell ur parents. they will love u still, but whatever u do DO NOT GET AN ABORTION!!! thats KILLING a LIVING BEING! ur parents will be upset that u made a bad choice, but they most likey wont disown u. my best advice is to give the baby up for adoption, u would need a job to support your baby, and ur parents can just raise it and do all that parenting again! hun, keep ur legs closed next time, and think of the outcome before u open them. just because ur 12 years old dosent me u cant get pregnant! My wishes of luck!

Answer 7

Please, for your health and the health of your unborn child, tell your parents, as well as his. You are very young and in a very vulnerable position and I know that this is a very difficult time for you. You need as much support and love as you can get, your parents have the right to know that they are going to be grandparents. They may need time to adjust to the idea but you need to give them that chance. You are not ready to do this alone. You need support, your unborn child needs support.
The father of your child needs support. You two made a mistake, but it isn't the end of the world, in fact it is a wonderful new beginning. You have to find the good in this and expect the challenges as corny as that may sound right now. All of your answers are not going to be found here honey. Talk to your boyfriend, his parents and yours, and all of you need to come together on this issue. You must find a way, you have more going for you than you think. I hope that I have been of some help.

Answer 8

oh my gosh!!!! first off, have you been seen by a doctor? because that's more important right now. you and the baby!
second whats done is done,your really young but your just going to have to deal with this, at least you have his parent backing you up. as for your parents they need to know how could you have gone this long without your mom noticing? that's a trip! and its not your fault,because what parents let their 12 year old daughter sleep at her "boyfriends" house? not to knock your parents... But still tell them it wont be so bad be live me i have 3 kids and I'm 25..not as young as you but i was 12 when i met my husband and were still together, hard times....but were still together!! So yea its hard just try to make the best of things.. if all else fails you still have your baby to love!

Answer 9

You went to eight months without your parents finding out? Wow- do your parents pay much attention to you or are you over weight and it really doesn't look like you're pregnant? When I was 12, my mother knew when I had my period.

If I were you, I would tell them now. Its going to be a shock to them especially since you went this far without them knowing. But yiu need all the help you fcan get.

Answer 10

First of all you are 12!!! that's what your parents would say and second WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING. yes I'm 24, don't worry i have been there seen it and not done. However i know what you are going through, first tell them... second, shame on you and your boyfriend for trying to hide it from your parents; third, shame on his parents!!! good for you, you had sex now you know the greatest thing in life and lastly now you know it comes with RESPONSIBILITY!!! and one question for you, how old is your boyfriend?