Isn't it funny that women think men are hot by their eyes, or their smiles, but women have to be hot ALL over?

Question

I think it's frustrating at all the stress women are under to look "hot" all the time. Nice bodies.. makeup.. nice clothes.. blahblahblah. But men can have "beer guts", bad haircuts, horrible clothes... and a woman will say he is SO attractive because he has blue eyes, or a cute smile. How stress-free is it be a guy?? lol

Answer 1

Men are sight minded
women are soul minded.
Men are attracted by the wrappings first.
Women are attracted to what's inside.

Answer 2

yeah, it's really funny. .so we should know why we differ that way, anatomically, both have the same brain structure, one difference is the fat is more evenly distributed in the female body than the male, so climate can easily affect a man's behavior, also the food we eat. noticed males get easily feel cold or hot so the need for wearing thicker clothings or bare chested.?.
the testostereone or the male sex hormone is greater in male so it affect the minds to seek sensual pleasure and the mechanislm most affected is the eyes or the faculty of seeing. the brain pattern of a man is greatly altered by what a man sees, so he physically views a woman for its physical attractiveness. noticed the smut magazines are designed primarily for the male buyers. but one may ask how about the smut magazines that display male models? generally it's not for the female buyers, but still for the male buyers, that is, the homosexuals. another thing, men differs in what they view or like the most in a woman, their personality is easly detected thru this.
for the brain pattern in a woman, normally, it's the other side that functions more, and it's not the eyes that alter activity, but the whole senses, especially the ear, so lots of woman goes gaga hearing a man's deep husky voice.about the eyes, woman sense thru it if a man has confidence and sincerity. however, i think it's the woman's intuition that determines what really is a man not just by the way he smile or the attractiveness of his eyes, but all other subtle involuntary body movements they see.

Answer 3

I agree with you on the high-pressure standards we and our media have put out there. A girlfriend of mine and I talked of this once and she, herself alone lol, expressed that sometimes the quality of the man's personality, character, commitment can actually cover for that beer belly or that old Hooter's cap he wears to the movies. Maybe they're really fascinated and swept over by the guy's eyes and smile.... maybe some are more like 'well, he does have beautiful eyes'.. like they're settling. Gives me hope...lol

I know it's not too dang stress-free being a guy because ladies are so ..............???? lol

Answer 4

My male cousin had anorexia for years coz he had a girlfriend that called him "larda**". He nearly died at 87lbs and she STILL said he was fat!

My brother worries about his hair constantly because the girls in his office make comments about bald men.............. he's got Hair!

And the best one yet, My best male friend just had Liver Cancer. He's lucky to be alive. He nearly tore himself open trying to get a 6pack to impress a bunch of girls.

It's not just women who feel they have to be "hot ALL over", we're just louder when we complain about it.

Fun Facts: Bras were invented by a WOMAN. Men wore high heels and wigs FIRST.

Answer 5

Personally, I think a big brain, a strong work ethic, and a sense of humor make a woman sexy.
Looks don't last, but personality and smarts do.

Answer 6

you are totally right. guys can have a great body but not the personality we date them how come men don't do the same

Answer 7

theres 3 things we look at honey, and all you need is 2 of em.

Answer 8

feels damn good, but i don't have a gut and my hair is well kept during the week.

Answer 9

I think yes

Answer 10

In my honest opinion, men are pigs. It's as simple as that.