How often should a young married couple have sex a week?
2006-07-04 05:35:50 · 18 answers · asked by Inner B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well speaking as a married woman, I would say that it is really important, it may be more important to the husband than the wife sometimes and that is because, we as women are very emotional and we need to hear "I love you" more than the fellas do but, they are more physical than women, so they need us to "make love" to them regularly in order to know we love them. In other words Their "I love you" is "Making Love"
So in saying all of that, no one here can tell you and your spouse what is the right amount of times to make love per week that is totally up to the two of you, the thing about marriage, is it's a give & get thing, some times the wife may be too tired to make love because of a hard day at work or with the kids or whatever, and in saying that the husband say okay but, the same goes the other way around the husband may need his wife to comfort him after a long bad day so it's up to the two of you not the world, but there are two things that I think is needed in all marriages young ones as well as old ones that's needed:
1.) Always, Always make time for each other, do not forget to go out for dinner, or a romantic evening together, just because you are married do not mean that you have to stop dating, and spending time with each other, this will keep the love strong and solid.
2.) Never Let Anyone tell you something about your spouse, believe in and have trust in the one you loved enough to marry, Sometimes others will try to come between you two, and no matter what, do not stop talking with each other, NOT AT, you must share how you feel with your spouse, not the girl friend, or the home boys. and always be a friend as well as a lover.
Well, that's all I will say, I wish I could tell you what you think you need to hear but, you know your spouse, and you know what they need from you as well what you need from them, do not let others run your marriage......Best Wishes.......( =
2006-07-04 06:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Married Couple? That's the only time it's ok. Sex in a marriage is very important because it does bring a couple closer. They can have fun together. It feels GREAT! And it really helps guys when they are stressed out! So whenever they want. At least twice a week!
2006-07-04 05:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lorla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely up to yall. There is no right answer. It is what both of you are comforatble with. If it is an issue of sex drive I recommend seeing a doctor. Some birth control pills can lower sex drive in women and men can have problems too. If you are satisfied with your sex life dont worry about what other people do. But sex and intimacy are very important to a relationship. both partners need to feel wanted and attractive. Just keep this in mind, the top 3 reason why couples divorce is
1. MONEY
2. SEX
3. CHILDREN
Best of luck to you. And if you want some good advie go to
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www.drphil.com
www.funinbed.com
There are literally a TON of websites out there that can help you spce things up.
2006-07-04 05:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not right to go my statistics or mathematics. Let the love flow and things take its own course. Neither partner should feel that the other is being too aggressive. It has to be mutual and so far both enjoy there is no limit. Its not a number game. Its the most beautiful thing on earth. Enjoy it in the right earnestness.
2006-07-04 05:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by sacredlovingheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever makes the couple happy is how many times. There is no written rule. Although usually at this point in the relationship is when there is the MOST sex!! Enjoy the time you may have now, before you have children!!
2006-07-04 05:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 02:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on both your sex drives. When you are young it is important, but when you get older you should be able to let it take a lower priority in your life.
2006-07-04 05:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very important
2006-07-04 08:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by caribbeangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL young and married?? no kids no worries?? sex should be like food three times a day and in between for snacks... hells yeah i remember those days enjoy it while you can..
2006-07-04 05:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As often as is both comfortable for both partners I suppose. But personally....But, anything less than 4 times a week and I get depressed. lol
2006-07-04 05:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋