Our neighbor have 2 daughters,one of the daughter lives with him and other one is moved out.He is really very mean to his daughter,she is 26yrs old.every time i go over his house he is always insulting her,yelling at her,cussing her with very nesty words.she is my friend.I am on the very edge of my temper with him.I really want to tell him to leave her alone.He doesnt let her move out of the house.They are from my country.India aswell.she is so simple and sweet,he didnt let her go to school,he dont let her work anywhere,he didnt let her have her driver's license,now he is looking for a guy for her now days to get her marry.Should i say something to him and help her out or just keep my nose out of it?I really want to choke him.
2006-07-04 05:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was born here in the USA but I was in a similar situation. I did have a job and a licsense, but my parents charged me so much for rent I could not afford to move out. Do you have you own place? She is 26, he cannot stop her from moving out.My father was/is verbally abusive. My self esteem has gone up 1000% since getting out of a situation where I was insulted bossed around daily and cussed out a few times a week. Offer her a place to stay, do not say anything to her father, this wil only make it worse.
2006-07-04 05:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by eastcoastdebra 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
It's none of your business because she's an adult and if she wants to leave, the law is on her side. She should get out of his home...maybe offer to let her stay with you or help her get her own apartment. But don't get into family matters, you're just asking for trouble.
2006-07-04 05:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather advice you to stay off the whole thing. It's rather sad, and even though you have a good intention, it may not help much. Rather, it would cause more problems for your friend.
2006-07-04 05:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ur nose out of it, just be there for ur friend anything she needs help cos the man might not like u interfering with his affairs.
2006-07-04 06:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their culture is so different than ours. It won't do you any good to do or say anything. I'm really surprised he allows you to be friends.
2006-07-04 05:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it. It's probably a cultural thing.
2006-07-04 05:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh thats a toughy...i dont know being me i prob would not say anything to him, just be there to support your friend and help her to make the right decision...God bless!!!
2006-07-04 05:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by tatortot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to you friend ask her if she would like you to help her
2006-07-04 05:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by paulette7618 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋