My friend Shelby was suppose to come over yesterdat but she went to another friend house when she was suppose to at my house should I be her friend?
2006-07-04 05:15:32 · 15 answers · asked by Bitch From Hell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah be her friend, but ask her what happened, why she didnt come to your house if it was supposed to be that way..
2006-07-04 05:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by bordergirltx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has memory problems? Did she call and apologised later? I'm sure she had, that's how you found out she went to another friend's place. Give her the benefit of the doubt that she went over there for something more important. Just forgive her for this time and dont create an enemy of her just for a mistake like that. Its always better to have an extra friend than an enemy.Remember, to forgive is divine. Call her and invite her to your place again, and I hope she will come this time....if she doesnt, then you can decide to take her as just a casual friend., not an enemy,ok?
2006-07-04 12:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should still be her friend but let her know it was not fair on her behalf to go off to another friend's house when the two of u had plans of her coming over to ur house.
2006-07-04 12:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was that so bad, your willing to end your friendship? Friends can do worse things! Hang on to your friends as long as you can, later in life you'll grow apart. As you get older, friends will come and go. You could have asked or joined them.
2006-07-04 12:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by fleamarketmutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to her! just call her or go up to her and say whats up with that? and she might ask what and u could explain to her what u think was wrong that happened. then if she thinks its relly nothin at all and u think its something big its time for a lil one on one talking about friendship.
2006-07-04 12:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to forgive and don't hold grudges.
your friend may have found it more appealing to be at the other friends house yesterday, but wait give it time. tomorrow, she may find that YOU are a better truer friend!
2006-07-04 12:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course!!ask her for an explanation first.get over urself.how old r u anyway?12?
2006-07-04 12:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by bald_eagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how inconsiderate and hurtful that was, not that your jealous, but expect her to do what she says she's doing, nobody likes being lied to. if this is a pattern i would distance myself, if a one time thing and she regrets it than forgive her!!
2006-07-04 12:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by beaniefufer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she forgot she had plans to go to your house, why not call her and ask what happend.
2006-07-04 12:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk with her...it's the better thing that you can do.
2006-07-04 12:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋