I was raped but i am afraid to disclose it to my parents, but if i see any gyanicologist, will she be able to say that i was raped or had sexual relation by examiing my sexual organ ?
2006-07-04 05:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by honey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to tell your parents..dont be ashamed....ITS NOT YOUR FAULT...and anyone that is a parent would stand behind you no matter what....you need to go to the hospital ASAP....
2006-07-04 05:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , but you need to act quickly. Rape generally causes trauma to the genitalia not caused by normal consensual sex. However after 72 hours any DNA evidence has been removed or destroyed and will not be able to aid in catching or convicting the person.
If for no other reason but your own well being and physical safety you need to see a doctor. Don't worry so much about "proving" something , be more concerned with just making sure you are alright. Also may not be too late for a morning after pill and need to check for possible STD transmission.
Even if DNA can not be collected get help for yourself.
2006-07-04 05:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may or may not be able to tell. But the longer you wait, the less likely they will find physical proof of your rape. YOu need to see someone TODAY. Get someone to take you to the emergency room right now. They have the rape kits and know what to do.
If you are afraid to tell your parents, call the police, ask for a sexual crimes officer. Tell the officer your story and then she/he can help you tell your parents. You could also do this with a trusted friend/family member.
Please don't wait any longer. I know that you are embarrassed. But you don't have to be. You should be angry!!!! How would you feel if someone did this to your sister, mom or best friend? You'd be furious. Don't let this guy get away with it, or he'll do it again.
Good luck to you. I know you can find the strength to follow through with what you need to do. I'll pray for you.
2006-07-04 05:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mistress T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means report this . Go to you doctor or emergency room where you can be treated if need be and they will help you with getting the law involved in a confidnetial way, and get you any counseling you will need. I see your already scared and unsure of yourself, but don't let that bastard get you down. He may have done this before or it may have been his first time, but if it continues he will more than likely get more violent in time. The life you save may be your own if not someone elses. Maybe he's already done this before, and you could be the icing on the cake that puts him where he belongs--behind bars with big bubba! And if your afraid to tell your parents first , let the law tell them and they will help you all with emotional support and info. Good Luck, and God Bless!!
2006-07-10 17:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by hill billy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman/woman is raped then it really is in straightforward words her who can settle on what to do about the issue, and what she feels delicate with, remembering that any selection she makes is going to be which includes her for some thing of her existence. yet with that suggested, abortion is under no circumstances a superb answer. it really is not the child's fault that it got here into existence through such aggravating circumstances...and there is continually different options, which contain adoption etc.
2016-11-05 21:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by bhupender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz tell your parents and call the police and report it so he can go to jail i have being raped before by 5 guys at one time . it is not your fault so plz don't be scared , go to the hospital and yes they should be able to tell u that u was rape
2006-07-04 06:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, please, please tell someone. This guy needs to be locked up. I made this mistake, when I was raped at 16. I didn't turn him in, and he has raped several girls since. Go to the doctor, they cannot release information to your parents without your consent, but I would highly recommend talking to your parents. Start with your mom, explain that something really bad has happened, and you need her help. Please email me if you need anything, whatsoever. You should talk to a rape crisis counselor.
I am so sorry you have to go through this. rlms_girl@yahoo.com if you need to talk, or absolutely anything. good luck, honey. turn the sonofab*tch in. don't let him get away with this.
2006-07-04 05:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup but if you were raped you need to to tell someone. Your parents won't think lowly of you they will however want to (rightfully so) beat the living crap out of the guy who did it. So you need to tell someone so her can get arrested.
2006-07-04 05:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ajescent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can tell if you were raped or if you made a story up
2006-07-04 05:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends but you should tell your parents.....and the POLICE!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-04 05:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋