My boyfriend moved to California. He has a choice to come back or not. How do i make him want to come back? I love him so much and I miss him. I'm so sick of crying over him not being in my arms. I'm so hurt and I and all his other friends miss him so much! Please help me. How do I make him come back?!
2006-07-04 04:56:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetheart, there is probably very little that you can do. He will come back if he wants to or he will move on without you if he wants to. Even if he does choose to move on without you, he may come back later begging to get you back. This will all be a real test of his love for you. Either way, you deserve to be with somebody who isn't going to run off without you. Believe me, there is some guy out there that would give anything to be with you and would treat you like his princess. It is so easy in this world to go for the people we want (who don't necessarily want us) and pay no attention to those who do want us. Good luck.
2006-07-04 05:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kelley S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "make "him come back. If he loves you as much as you love him, he will need no help being convinced and he Willl be on the first plane back. If you need to force him to come back to you, it wont work out anyway. what you can do is let him tell you what he is planning to do, so you know where you stand, and you can either count the days till you see him again, or erase him from your life. I really hope it wil be the first one. All the best!
2006-07-04 12:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to let him know how much you and his friends care for him and miss him.
If he has the chance to come back and loves you as you do him, he will.
2006-07-04 12:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by sassygrlnil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know all of this. Say you are dying to hold him in your arms again, and if he came back, everything would fall into place and be perfect. Ultimately, you have to just sit back and let him make the decision... hopefully it will all work out for the best!
2006-07-04 12:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him over and over how u miss him or are going to, ask him if he will visit- plan a good bye perty with all his friends so he knows how many people are going to miss him- that is all you can really do.
2006-07-04 12:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you need to ask yourself why he left in the first place. maybe he needed a break from everything. and that doesn't mean it was your fault or something you did; some people just like to get away for awhile. ask him. make sure you show him that you trully care for him by understanding why he left. once you understand why he left you can cater to his needs for returning.
2006-07-04 12:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will come back don't pressure him or you will push him away
2006-07-04 12:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Tell him how you miss him. If he really loves you he'll do everything to be with you :).
2006-07-04 12:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by MadnessRedefined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-04 12:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by MANUJA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋