2006-07-04 04:42:42 · 24 answers · asked by Ranjeet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What honor is there in your word? Are you a man or an "instant gratification animal" that seems to populate the earth today.
If you have children then you have to stay with your wife despite your "feelings". SHe has consented to be with you through think and thin. If you don't have any children then you can get a divorce and rationaize off to the fact that your marriage was arranged.
I don't think you'll find happiness in leaving your wife. You might have a lot of fun, but eventually reallity will hit you. Remember "be careful for what you wish for ...you just might get it".
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Good luck
2006-07-04 05:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be in love with this girl because your marriage isn't doing that well, and you're dperessed from it. I suggest that you don't start an affair, just if you don't feel like your real relationship is doing too well you may want to consider seperating. It's better to live in peace then lies and affairs. Slowing seperate from your wife, and then when the time is right ask the girl to marry you. But, get to know the girl more before you do such a big decision, she could be a drug dealer for all you know. Good luck!
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2006-07-04 11:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should need to talk with your wife. I don't know what kind of marriage you might have, but what you're saying is one of the worst things a husband could say to a wife: that youre in love with someone else. This goes way beyond an affair. But, it's better that you tell her so she could get on with her life.
2006-07-04 11:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by kylanusoftly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER ALONG AND KEEP YOUR MIND ON YOUR MARRIAGE. Why would you go outside of your marriage unless you was unhappy at home. What about your wife feelings. What about trying to make your marriage work instead of putting extra time into a girlfriend who may leave you for someone else. Man stop playing games and grow up. Remember marriage comes first.
2006-07-04 11:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Basilchef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was arranged wasn't it? well firstly you will leave your wife tagged with a bad name and most men will not want to marry her so I say weigh your options...I know there is a thing called love thats not considered too often in Indian culture, and I know love feels sooo good. If I were you, I would talk to your wife first and see how she feels about it? be honest and open...it will set your free
2006-07-04 11:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to your wife. If she doesn't make you happy, talk to her.
Be open and get everything out. If you don't talk then it will be bad for the relationship. I'm sure the marriage was arranged, and from my knowledge, those kind are much better then the other marriages. If talking to her doesn't work, then seek counseling...
2006-07-04 14:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by gasncal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ran, that is easy if your already married then what should you do? You took vows with your wife and if your not in love with her anymore then leave her before cheating or even falling in love with someone else.
2006-07-04 11:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your biggest challenge seems you have misplaced you moral compass. Secondly you need to cut your poor wife free so she can get on with her life. Thirdly if the other woman is still out and waiting with baited breath go for it, you should hook up with her so you stop wrecking other peoples families! GROW UP, maybe read you vows again DUMB ***!
2006-07-04 12:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhhhhhhhhh that is american for your married you let that girl be dont bother with her.she doesnt need a married man getting her hopes up for happiness to give you the chance of you marrying her and falling in love with someone else and find your self asking in the internet im in love with this other girl and this is my second marriage................. leave her alone. i feel for your wife.
2006-07-04 11:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are really and truly in love with her you need to spend sometime alone and try to figure out which one u would want to be with.
P.S.being with both is never a good option it would eventually lead up to violence maybe towards u.Good Luck.
2006-07-04 11:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋