okk i dont no what to do. when ever there is something wrong with him he doesnt tell me adn say everthing is ok when i no that something is wrong i feel liek hes not open to me and i am head over heels for this guy and i just want the best for him but i cant do that if he doesnt tell me what he is thinking...
2006-07-04 04:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by bebebrat1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The only thing you can do is remind him that you are there for him and not nag him about it, when he does open up be a listner more than anything at first then as he opens up to you more then start putting in a few cents of your own in. Good luck.
2006-07-04 04:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool. Listen there are some guys who take longer to open themselves mainly because of something that has happened in the past. He is afraid probably that if you two break up that like a lot of people you will use things against you that he has told you in total confidence. Lots of guys and gals, men and women violate confidentiality when things go wrong. Let it play its course and you will have to tell him no matter what you will not violate his trust and use it against him if things do not work out, or if you have a bad fight. Unfortunately people do use things against other people in very hard times. If you truly care for him, think to yourself that no matter what, good or bad you will never, and I mean never violate his trust. All the above also goes for him too. This is a two way street on the trust and confidentiality.
2006-07-04 11:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun the easiest thing to do is sit him down and tell him u want him to be more open...it dosent hurt to ask and if u love him like u say u do just give it a try...he might give u the same answer like hes ok and nothing is wrong but say u dont believe him and see what his reaction is...hes either a closed book for which no amount of reading will solve...or he is too scared to tell u his problem incase u think less of him...tell him u love him....no matter what....and tell him ur not moving from his face till he tells u....lol...he'll either give in or get up...either way they r stubborn creatures and handling them with kid gloves is in the ice age...show him ur not gunna let up on him and he'll eventually crack...tc and good luck!
2006-07-04 11:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by angel_of_ur_heart35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be open with him and hope that he will do the same. Tell him you know something is wrong you can feel it and you would like to help him work through it. But to do that he needs to talk it over with you.
2006-07-04 11:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're head over heels, doesnt mean you can solve all his problems. Apparantly he's not one to open up.
OR you're too intrusive. In either case, you need to accept him the way he is, and stop trying to read his mind.
2006-07-04 11:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb sumthin is botherin him dat he just dont wanna talk to u bout....buh if he really doez love u, he shud open up to u........u shud not give up on him n let him know ur there for him if he needz to talk....if that doeznt work.....ask him if itz YOU daz botherin him...
2006-07-04 11:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ AnGeL ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a guy thing,,,just unzip his pants,,,give him a nice slow bj, he will be fine
2006-07-04 11:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋