I hv a m8 hu doesnt rly get on wiv my other m8s and is always moaning at me 5 not spending enough time wiv him but I wud b more appreciative if he wasn't so bossy. I'm not sure what 2 do my other m8s just say I shud desert him, wot do u think? If u hv ne more questions say, and I'll add details. Thanks.
2006-07-04 04:19:56 · 15 answers · asked by comostreet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm from England sorry about the bad English.
2006-07-04 04:29:57 · update #1
Its jealousy!! ur pal obviously really lyks u(not in a gay way or anything) and wants to spend as mch time wi u as possible which is good, as you know he'll always be dere 4 u bt u also dont need that kind of possessiveness in ur life! If it was me id stick with ur mate as he's probably the only one that will stick by u when something goes wrong bt dnt cut out ur other pals aswel as they seem to be the ones that you can have a good time with! Try and keep an even balance between the two groups and u'll be jammin!!
2006-07-04 04:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kymmy!XxX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not desert your friend but you also don't need to have anyone that possessive either. You will need to set up boundaries and let your M8 know that he is pressuring you and that you are not exclusive to him. You should be free to hang with whoever you want. If this person becomes more agitated by this then I suggest you put a bit of distance between yourselves and truly asses if this person is adding to your life or draining you.
2006-07-04 11:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by celle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your mate try to get on with your ather mate's can't they see it's you that is stuck in the middle? When you work out how to do this then let me know, I've got the same problem, but when me and all my mtaes are together they all up end rowing and i'm stuck in the middle.
2006-07-08 12:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one of the friends involved in this thing.
I used to have lots of problems with this person (the possesive one) He used to make lots of lies up about me at school get me in loads of trouble and was generaly really out to me.
However he has now started "poseesing my friend" and proventing us from seeing him. He is also incredibl self centred and never considers how my friend feels. He is also incredibly patronising and its pratticly bulling my friend (even though he doesent seen to see this)
2006-07-04 11:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by KJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I would like to say
1 go back to school and learn to spell.
2 take elocution lessons.
3 Then submit your question again.
2006-07-04 11:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by sophie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mate needs to get his own life and not burden you with his problems.
Sorry but it's not natural for someone to attach themselves to another like that.
Sorry for your pal but you live your life the way you want to, not by what your pal wants you to.
2006-07-04 11:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Whisper4691 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like jealousy issues... Tell him to get his act together or move on...
You can't dessert other friends for just one who is acting like a muppet... He either joins in or finds something better to do...
2006-07-04 11:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if he is possesive, but maybe your mates are immature. If you don't want to give up your mates, then you are better off without your man.
2006-07-04 11:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by mikers1117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's this possessive now.... he'll be worse as time goes on.
It's time to throw this fish back into the sea.
2006-07-04 11:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Primrose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your chum is being possessive and controlling and if you give in to him he'll never learn. ignore his behaviour and when he's tired of suffering he'll knock it off or move on. don't give in!
2006-07-04 11:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋