fathers would you forgive your wife and accept her back, if she tells you she only told you your son isn't yours after a big fight just so you can allow her take the child and leave.(if she is now saying she didn't mean it,would you forgive her)?
2006-07-04 04:18:30 · 9 answers · asked by mo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not ever forget that she said it, and I would hold hostility fora long time, and would eventually forgive her. I would also tell her that she would have to agree to a paternity test or DNA test to show me that she was not lying to me about the child, unless there was a resemblance that couldn't be denied.
2006-07-04 04:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive her all you want. Yet, I would certainly make sure that a DNA test verifies your paternity. Women are not always truthful when it comes to paternity. Unfortunately some women behave like promiscuous men and do tend to have multiple sex partners. Once they become pregnant, they make a good business decision by selecting the guy that is the best provider at the time.
2006-07-04 12:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by MrG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Daddy, and yes, to get to be with my kids, I would live in whatever, whenever, however, with her. She is not right in what she said, and I can't honestly say I could forgive her for it, But I would supress my own feeelings for my kids. I did for 25 years, so I'm living proof that I "walk my talk"! It won't be forever. Kids grow up fast. Do it for your kids Dad....you won't regret it! Best of Luck!
2006-07-04 11:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F no! Are you kidding me....first off, if he had a kid w you, he should have taken a paternity test..so its his fault for even believing you...or whoever in the first place...and second, you gotta be one f'd up female to pull some shi*t like that...so the answer is no.
2006-07-04 11:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by DeFtMaN2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need two things here. A DNA test and a good lawyer
2006-07-04 11:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a grown up thing to do.........seriously, there should be a maturity test before people are allowed to reproduce.
2006-07-04 11:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA test and a counsler ifu want to work it out
2006-07-04 11:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Lilmisssassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games. It's not worth the heartache you cause, to you, your mate, and your child.
2006-07-04 11:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not,geez be for real
2006-07-04 11:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋