Just because a person (male or Female) working and financially take care of things, should you allow them to treat you any why they want.
2006-07-04 04:18:25 · 34 answers · asked by jentn2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No Way! relationships are a two way thing and i assume the one not working is looking after the home etc,in which case in reality they are working but just not getting paid for it
2006-07-04 05:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do allow it you will have accepted the title of door mat and can expect to walked upon whenever the person wants and they won't blink an eyelid while doing it. Mutual respect is the key regardless of ones financial status. However, you have to accept that when one party has a very high power job they deserve a degree of respect for their hard work and achievements.
2006-07-04 04:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by huge001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango. We all work at something. The person laboring and providing income must have a meeting of the minds with the one who makes life worth living. Both need a reality check.
2006-07-17 03:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if they are treating you bad now, it would not matter if you made as much as them or not, they would still treat you the same way. An abusive person wether verbably or phisical will never change, it only gets worse. And nothing you can do will change that, money, love, threats, counseling, ect.
They are what they are!
2006-07-04 04:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by sassygrlnil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is true but when you decide to be in a relatioship where you are 100% depending on the other one, you are in a way giving them some power over you. if it was out of choice (maybe you stopped school early or some other reason!!) you can still get a job and be slight;y independant. Whoever is in this situation should just sit on their butt and expect things to happen . you husband/wife might be your soulmate but he/she is not your father/mother
2006-07-17 08:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by dark_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you actually doing things around the house, pulling your weight, making meals, doing the laudry, changing the beds taking care of the kids(if there are any), etc,etc...If you are then hey, they have no right to treat you that way, but if your not...
2006-07-17 07:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley not, every man/women and child deserves to be treated with respect. If your not, dont stay in that relationship, find somebody who admires and respects you. Lifes to short to stay in an abusive relationship, emotionally or physically are just as harmful as the other.
2006-07-04 04:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that you mean can they treat you like a sack of garbage. NO, even if you do not contribute much financially to a relationship there are other aspects to consider.
2006-07-04 04:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is not any reason for someone to treat you any different than the way you want to be treated. It is your life and your body if they love you they will understand.
2006-07-17 16:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a working woman who paid everything and took care of everything she could treat me anyway she wanted. She could do anything she wanted to me, too.
Heh, heh.
2006-07-04 04:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋