2006-07-04 04:14:45 · 35 answers · asked by jy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
2 weeks? how do you know?
2006-07-04 04:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Kerouac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should have thought about that ahead of time. if you are not ready to take responsibility for what results from having sex then you should not be having sex in the first place. now you have a life in the making that you need to get rid of. YOU don't abort it, a doctor does. anything you might do could end up killing your girlfirend. if you must go along with this then go to a planned parenthood clinic and they can tell you what you need to do. maybe you can stand by each other and see the pregnancy through and offer this poor child and a childless couple the amazing gift of life and love through adoption. you could also tell the planned parenthood clinic you would like to adopt out this child and they can probably help you contact a lawyer(probably free to you) and they can find a family that will pay all medical expenses and such and they will then adopt and give this child that you are not ready for a good home and life. make sure this is what your girlfriend wants too and that you are not pressuring her.
now that you have "played" why make this innocent child the one who has to pay the consequences that you ignored. do the right thing!
2006-07-04 04:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by kaylamay64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have planned parenthood clinics throughout the areas. You are not able to abort a baby until you are 12wks pregnant. What they do is they do not put you to sleep and they keep you sedated and you feel cramping and some uncomfortableness in the abdomen area. She will then bleed for approx 10 days. There are however issues with abortions as well. Sometimes(which it does happen)where they don't get the entire fetus out of the uterus and she will have to go through it again. It is very painful because your body tries to get rid of it and it is like a miscarriage. They also have herbal tea rememdies out there but if not taken properly you could get really sick and other problems could ocur.
2006-07-04 04:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she's pregnant if she's only 2 weeks? Wait until about 4 or 5 weeks if she is having an abortion because it's possible that she may have a miscarriage.
2006-07-04 04:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by lisachanel69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew you weren't ready, why didn't you use protection 2 weeks ago? Now you just have to live with the consequences. There is no "do-it-yourself" abortion kit at Walmart. Have the baby and let someone adopt it if you're "not ready" and invest in some contraception next time.
2006-07-04 04:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by NannyMcPhee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in your shoes at one time..but it happened when i found out that i was 4wks pregnant..and i had all those thoughts in my head too. My boyfriend and i thought we werent ready yet either..but we both sat down, figured up the money situation(figuered we're going to be poor as heck) and decided that we are going to keep it. How old are you guys? Abortion is wrong..there is many different sites you can go to see what abortion does and what else not. Do you really want to kill and innocent life because of your mistake?I thought about that and my answer was no..
2006-07-04 05:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by xxlilmekristyrae32xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to tell at two weeks. IF this is true then you should probably just give the baby up for adoption. If you're not ready for a child then you're not ready for sex either. You have to deal with this responsibly, being that you thought you were responsible enough to be so careless and get pregnant.
2006-07-04 04:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption is easier said than done, so dont consider that. Go to the doctor and make sure shes pregnant first. I once heard that they are these three wk after pills or something. Just make sure shes pregnant first, dont get all worked up for nothing.
Try using condoms next time, pulling out isnt all that safe. A perso can get pregnant on pre--***.
2006-07-04 04:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's two weeks pregnant, she is only on the first day of her missed period. Are you sure she's pregnant? Has she gone to the doctor to verify this?
If she is, and SHE doesn't want to carry the baby to term, she should call Planned Parenthood. SHE has to make that decision, not you.
Another option would be to give the child up for adoption. You would both need to sign the consent forms for this.
2006-07-04 04:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mama Pastafarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T ABORT! Killing is never right! If you're not ready to be parents, then put the baby up for adoption. Another family would be thrilled to have your baby. Send your girlfriend to a Caring Pregnancy center. They will council her and help her with whatever decision she makes. You two don't have to go through this alone.
2006-07-04 04:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Jennilee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't abort it, put it up for adoption, there are alot of couples out here that cant have kids and would love to have one they can rais from a newborn, I cant tell you what to do, but aborting it would be wrong, but if you REALY wanna take the life of something that hasent even begun to live go to the Dr. the will abort it.
2006-07-04 04:19:48 · answer #11 · answered by Little Mamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋