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tough question ... only you can answer that ... be practically realistic. Idolizing the 'ONE' will only set you up for disappointment.

2006-07-04 03:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Azureskies 3 · 0 0

You probably won't know just yet, because you seem a little immature. Nothing ever stays the same. You may be able to find happiness in one moment, but time changes things. Your likes and dislikes change, so one moment you may think you've found true happiness, and later on regret thinking this way. Happiness can only be found by searching within. Some of these answers people have given you is just pure crap, people don't give a hoot about your happiness, only you, so only you can figure it out, right? I guess the only other thing that I can say is if you're with someone, and they make you laugh, and feel good about who you are, that's a good sign. Partners don't come with any guarantees. Keep an open mind. Most people don't see their perfect matches because their minds are all caught up in ignorance and crap.

2006-07-17 10:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by amsing 1 · 0 0

You are discribing a fairy tale.
Look at how many people get divorced. Instead of waiting for that magical feeling. Make sure you know what you need in a man and what red flags to avoid. Only then can you find love.

If you love someone who has some flaws and red flags but he is so charming and makes your heart do flips. The heart flipping is just infatuation not true forever love.

Happy Ever After is definatly possible. You will know it when the man is making your heart do flips and there are no red flags or fatal habits.

2006-07-18 11:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0 0

A lot of these answers are pure crap. Anyone who tells you: "You will just know, you will feel it; you'll get goosebumps, or you will have your hair stand on end every time you think about them" has true love completely confused with infatuation and lust. You may indeed get goosebumps, you may have your hair stand on end. You may even get the cold sweats and forget who you are whenever you are around them but that doesn't mean crap. Why? Because it ALL goes away as the years go by. The only thing you are left with is whatever kind of commitment you brought with you into the relationship and whatever experiences you have shared as a couple that will cement your love. So it all boils down to the fact that anyone can be "the one" and you make the decision of who that is. You will only "know" after many years have passed.

2006-07-17 05:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0 0

WOW!! this sounds like a question i would have been asking about 2years ago. Its a feeling u get. Its when ur hair stnds up all over ur body when u hear is voice. Its when every part of that person makes u better. I know i found tru love because there is nothing i would change if i could. A true love is someone that will push you and push you to want to be better and the only one at the finish line waiting. True love will see you for who u really are when u dont see urself.
thats true love to me....good luck

2006-07-17 03:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by nikki nicole 2 · 0 0

you just have to fellow your heart and let god take his course. If it works out.. you two will last forever. great love.. is in only one form and thats never letting go.., arguing but making up.. when someone wont give up on you no matter how much you ask them to.., be honest, Be straight-forward. be faithful.., Admire her inner beauty, trusting in eachother.. and everything else will come easy.., Be there for eachother through anything.., and youll be happy together forever..., marriage, is the next step.., When you want your whole life with someone. When you talk to her.. and Everything around you.. seems not even important.. when you talk to her.., you dont want to stop. When your away from her.. you dream your with her. when you cant sleep without her. When you cant live without her and once you think about living without her. you panic. When she doesnt treat you like your nothing.. When she appreciates everything you do. when she forgives you for anything you may do. When youll do anything for her and she does the same. When her heart is open to you. when you believe in eachother and having nothing stop you too.
thats how you know you found your one true love. When no girl amounts to her. When you make her feel special as she with you. When someone makes you feel that your worth that little bit. and it means the world to you.., when she tells you she loves you. and cant stand a moment without you. remember love is never having to say your sorry.., when she forgives you for anything.., When she makes you feel good inside and out.

2006-07-19 01:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0 0

Easy. When she already asked upteem times if you love her, it shows she cares very much about rating (just like our Singapore kahment).

It reaffirms your status as the saint.

When she says yes to all you have asked for without any rejection or question whatsoever like a meek lamb, you are assured of a homerun.

To ensure the continuity of her mood, there must be indices on happiness, financial stability, political relationship with all relative,
support level from your relatives and friends to all ongoing project to see through its completion, both combined core competencies and market value for the next ten or twenty years, the strength of your love portion #9, plus the strength of personality to live happily ever after.

It is an important issue nowadays, not the Singaporeans' dream on 5Cs (car, condominum, credit card, cash, and country country memebership). You know, ITE, and the Graduate School of Business don't have these on their curriculum.

2006-07-18 23:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First, never confuse sex with love. You can have great sex and still not love the person. You need to check the things that have nothing to do with sex.

See if the person will do the thing you like to do and at the same time see if you like doing the things that person like to do. (you do not have to like everything that the other person like but you have to be willing to let that person have time to do it i.e. once a month I go fly RF model airplanes) Does the person’s family like you and does your family like this person. (You family can see things you cannot because your emotion and passion are to caught up in the person) long engagement help. You can only keep up you guard so long and you stat to relax with the person and start to see the little things come out. This is just a few thing but I hop they help.

2006-07-04 04:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by BB 1 · 0 0

There is no such thing as happy forever...if it was..there would not be so many divorces.

No one ever knows if the one you have found is the ONE..only time will tell..and maybe a few divorces down the line. lol

2006-07-16 16:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Amerindienne 2 · 0 0

Here's your answer. I was with my son's father for four years, we split up and fought like cats and dogs. Thing was, neither of us was willing to not communicate. Fighting was still a way to stay in touch almost daily. Eventually he decided to move out of the state which would end all communication. I realized then that I couldn't imagine my life without him in it in SOME way. Even if just as the partner in the raising of our child. He moved back in a week later. The answer to your question is this.....if you can't imagine your life without him in it, (picture him crippled, broke, disfigured or depressed) he's the one. If you'd rather be "just friends" than not have him in your life at all, he's the one.
Good luck to you......

2006-07-04 04:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by harlow6b 1 · 0 0

When he's all you think about even when you're out with someone else. When you try to move on and the fact that ur in love with the guy is not letting move on. When most of what you say is about him or relates to him in one way or another, when even though he does something wrong you forgive him and act like it never happened.when you jus cant be mad at him.

gosh!!, i think im the one who's in love.

2006-07-18 09:57:59 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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