what will you do if 'll find out that your best friend hates you.. but you dont know the reason why????

Answer 1

Make a deep mind research ... Guess what possibly can be hurting or making her any wrong or confusion thought...
If you cannot find anything heavy enough to justify the attitude...Openly ask...

Answer 2

Hmm... from a friend that has had many experiences, ignore her for awhile. Your ignorance will lead to either friendship, or no friendship. If your bestfriend comes back to you and ask what's wrong, why are you ignoring me? Then you know she cares for you, and wants you as a friend. but, if she just stays away, then you know that she prefers that you two to, "prenons les distance" keep your distance. If you really want to know the reason why, and you don't like my idea, try asking her, Okay... what's wrong with you? And she can either say: Nothing! Oh nothing! Even though there is something. Or she will tell you the reason. Use whichever idea you like the most, and use it wiseley!

Good luck!
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Answer 3

Confront her. Knowing the reason why she hates you will help you to better have solutions to deal with the problem. She's your best friend, you guys are suppose to be able to sit down with each other and have a civil conversation about the issue at hand. Good luck.

Answer 4

The best thing to do is to ask your BF why she or he hates you and if he or she refuses to tell you then apologize and ask for forgiveness. I stopped talking to my best friend a while back because she slept with a guy I was dating. We parted ways, but now looking back I wish we had taken the time to talk about what happened. So keep asking her until you are blue in the face and she relents and tell you why. Real genuine good friends are hard to come by.

Answer 5

Usually best friends wont talk if they think or got to know that you betrayed them. They just hate betrayal. So can you remember at any time you verbally or practically did something that she could have mistaken as a betrayal.

Or did you make a phrank on her which you thought fun but she might mistook.

Talk to her ask for an explanation. You deserve it.

Answer 6

Well, have you tricked yourself into thinking that person is your best friend while in fact they don't care at all? I would say JEALOUSY on there part would make them turn against you if they were your friend to begin with. Jealous of what you have. Confidence, happiness, material objects or looks, who knows. Reevaluate your friends & find some that are more humble and not so two faced and jealous! You don't have to bow to your friends expectations or demands. If they hate you or dislike you, it is there loss. Put yourself around others who appreciate you.....

Answer 7

BEST friends don't hate. Re-evaluate your conversations with her. It might be that she took something out of context. You should ask her what's bothering her,hopefully she will tell you straight. Then you both can see if your friendship is worth saving. If it's not, don't let it get you down. The only THING anyone should change about themselves are their ATTITUDES. Remember,"be kind to others' and they will be kind to you." Good luck! I'm sure you are a great person. :-)

Answer 8

Hate is pretty strong word. It sounds like her feelings toward you have been building up for awhile. Talk to her, but don't be aggressive or confrontational. Be honest and maybe you can find out the root of the problem. Then go from there to see if your friendship is salvageable. Good luck!

Answer 9

I recently suspected that my best friend was angry with me!! I bluntly asked her if I had said or done something to make her upset with me> She replied no. Well the cold shoulder remained. At this point, I've realized that if she is angry with me, but can't say why, then it is no longer my problem, it is hers. I offered her an opportunity to express herself so that I might have an opportunity to apologize or make it right. If your friend is truly a friend (like my situation) then the issue will resolve with time. Maybe she's angry over something so silly that it's not worth mentioning. In that case it is probably best to leave it alone!!!

Answer 10

is ur name dee? cause if it is u roc cause yea well its my nickname....and seriosuly i was todae actaully stuck in the same problem todae a friend blew up in my face for some odd reason i dont noe y it was all very very confusing she was saying to me that i am an idiot but honestly she cant be my real friend if she calls me that did she call u anythin? if so i dont think u should be friends with her anymore i have already delt with too much pain from ppl im sick of actually im sick of saying sorry for things i didnt do dont you hate that? its horrible i wish that all the nice ppl in the world coul;d be my friend instead of the nasty ones y do they have to be like this? im sorry im not helping u much am i? so sorry.....maybe u can ask around like ur other friends ask them and get them to ask her why....because if she hates u....then shes not worth it im sorry to tell u that but its true....u shouldnt be treated badley because someone else hates u thats just not humane....listen i have been used countless times made fun of and all by myown friends and i have had enough so just find sumone else to be ur best friend because yea if she wants to be like that then let her/him lol anyhoo good luck =) toodooloo

Answer 11

well I pretend not to know that she hates me.. And probably I will find another new friend because what's the point you be friend with people that hate you?

I've experienced it.. When I get close with another girl, my best friend seems jealous with me but it's okay for me because I can be friend with anybody I want. However, we are still bestfriend but we just not closer anymore like before because I know that she stabbed-back me.