or should i help him?
I packed everything......and will un-pack everything....shouldn't I expect him to do the heavy labor?
2006-07-04 03:29:23 · 15 answers · asked by Cap'n Donna 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, it's not wrong. You have done plenty yourself. However since there is only one of him, perhaps the two of you can arrange for one of his strong friends to help him lift furniture that he would be unable to carry single-handedly. Then treat his friend, yourselves, and even some new neighbors (if you want to get to know them, and you are in the mood to get to know them exactly then) to a barbecue celebrating work well done!
2006-07-07 21:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by ilovela 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this really a big issue for you two? If you can help him and want to help him, then do so. Otherwise, let him do it all. It won't hurt him to do it all, and it won't hurt you to help him. Work TOGETHER on everything you possibly can. He should have helped with the packing, too. It is up to you two, though. Men are more equipped for heavy labor than we women are. So,maybe you can just do the light boxes. Talk it over with him.
2006-07-04 10:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him with what you can. But yes he should be doing the heavy lifting. Or higher a young stud that can lol.
2006-07-04 10:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal. Man should be part of this job as family. heavy task for husband, he should know without say or pleased .
2006-07-04 10:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only that tell him to find a alcoholic or a crack head give him ten dollars and its a done deal.,. Girl don't break your back for Christ sake your a delicate flower don't crush the petals.
2006-07-04 10:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by aboitoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not feel guilty about having him carry the heavy things. It is NOT a woman's place, we were not built like a man.
2006-07-04 10:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by ride2cowboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he eats you out, that is all he is required to do in life.
So get off that stinky *** and pack the dryer downstairs.
2006-07-04 10:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by mynerd78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when me and my man moved i helped as much as i could there are some things though that were just impossible and isnt it funny how you have no friends when it comes down to labor help?!?!?!we were alll by ourselves and i had no choice but to help!!
2006-07-04 10:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your expectations are valid. Maybe still help with the unpacking but only the small items. I think he will understand :)
2006-07-04 10:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes let him do this time
how many times you had labor
2006-07-04 10:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by premilove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋