british men when do u class a bird, lass, women or what ever u call them fat?
i hope this aint gonna get deleted i've just used 15 points trying to get an answer! shame on who ever reported me its an inocent question actually something i worry about every day! so who ever reported me i hope u r readin this and feel bad as i'm very depressed about my weight!
2006-07-04 03:08:13 · 16 answers · asked by blondebirdcrazy 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ya know, men love women of all different weights. Maybe you should just sit back and not worry anymore and just love being who you are. The right fellow will come along.
2006-07-04 03:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
Whew, that's a stinker of a question & for once I can't give any hard and fast rules as it's largely a matter of what the eye discerns as pleasing in it's proportions.
For me it's a matter of height to fat ratio since some women body build and are heavier than someone lighter who looks fat.
I ought to say,my lady fluctuates like noone's business and I don't love her any the less.
I would say it's a problem when the fat wobbles (except in a couple of upper places - you can be skinny and still have big boobs. By the way, really skinny looks unwholesome!). When there is loss of definition of facial features. When the waist bulges out insted of being straight or curving in. When there are too many chins. When the upper thighs have trouble passing each other on walking. When the tummy really hangs over the waist band.
It's a very unsatisfactory answer and I'd have to point to pictures and say "Very obese, that's fat, that's plump, that's ordinary, that's slim, that's skinny, that's eeughh". It depends on so many things. I honestly wouldn't bother about it. If you have to ask then it seems you're a bit too preoccupied with it if it's not just academic. You're best to take notice of what TRUSTED people tell you as we can get very false body images. Usually we see ourselves as too fat than too thin.
2006-07-04 10:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by stormsurfer_is_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i know what you mean, i have had questions deleted for no reason, any way, every body has a different look out on this, some men prefer stick thin, and some don't mind a bit of fat, personally i don't like the Victoria Beckhams of this world, as i am a little over weight myself I prefer a shapely figure, but its not that that stands out, its your smile, your dress sense, the way you carry yourself, weight isn't important its you that's important, and that's coming from a British man.
Lots of love Spud-XXX
2006-07-04 10:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they have more tires than the Michelin Man!
Seriously love, don't worry about your weight - any man who is worthy of you is not going to be concerned with the extra pounds! Sounds like you are not obese as otherwise you would not be asking the question!
If you want to lose weight you just have to be totally disciplined - totally resolved not to eat too much. It sounds difficult but actually it's not. Just try it for a day - say right "I am going to have two pieces of fruit for breakfast - two for lunch and soup for supper and that is it" and then stick to it - just do it for the day. Also on that day drink lots of water to fill you up. After one day, your stomach will appear less bloated and that will give you the incentive to do it again the next day.
After a few days you will need to return to a more balanced diet but you will feel so much better.
Good luck
2006-07-04 03:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by daniel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When belly is wider than chest. But if you are depressed about your weight, not size then remember the good things about you, don't get fooled into the diet industry, because if it worked it would be out of business. How many people have you heard say that such and such diet works because it has worked for them 3 times!!!!!!
Eat well (breakfast aMUST) and do more. Just do more excercise.
Take care. Look after yourself.
2006-07-04 03:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so im not a bloke, but let me reassure you, its not always how much you weigh but what you do with it. I was just on holiday and there were these 3 girls, all overweight, but they were gorgeous! They got all the attention because they knew how to dress well and were confident in themselves. They really looked good. So whatever answers you get, dont let it get you down, just go shopping!!!
2006-07-04 03:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your body type hun. I mean, you could be a size 16 but be quite tall so you could get away with it ... or you could be 5FT and a size 12 and could be seen as a little meat ball ...
Above all, its down to personnal taste i guess .. alot of men like bigger women.
2006-07-04 03:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will call a fat girl a fat girl, or maybe a fat chick, but evidently some guys like 'em like that.
2006-07-04 03:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dondare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you probably did the right aspect. that is obtrusive that he would not love you in the different case he will be extra comprehend-how and no guy properly worth having would overlook about you over this with out talking to you. in my opinion, he's being infantile.
2016-11-30 06:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by kirchoff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men that are hung up on looks aren't worth having. There are decent guys out there.
Who wants a man who will like himself better than you anyhow.
Love who you are. If you don't love yourself, no one else will.
2006-07-04 07:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋