I've been with my husband 10yrs and he still cant remember my favorite foods or movies or just things that i like in general. How can someone say they love you so much but cant remember anything about you?
2006-07-04 02:53:41 · 6 answers · asked by jentn2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men... it's a certain part of their brain that they don't use!
2006-07-04 02:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by gummi bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, he must love you because he married you. He has other things on his mind and is not prioritizing things that are important to you. When you get a moment alone with him, dont nag him but, let him know how much this hurts you. Also, remember there could be worse things so, you should also remind yourself of all the great things you love about him.
2006-07-04 10:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alecia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cant remember that but i bet he remembers when a football game comes on or when its time to go hang out with the guys. Dont feel bad was with my husband and he didnt remember my name half the time. He is just brain dead. Start posting papers and hints around the house where he can find them. Makes him feel embarrased.
2006-07-04 09:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he doesn't remember things doesn't mean he doesn't love you - men think and focus on different details as women and sadly enough it can make a woman feel or think they are unloved -- but it's just that details like that aren't typically something a man focuses on. Think of other things he does for you - provides financially for you - hugs you - wants you to sit and watch football with him - it doesn't matter that you don't like football - that's not the focus - the focus is he WANTS you to be WITH him. For a man, that is love.
2006-07-04 10:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by KitKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are like that... do he pay bills... do he work?? if he do and he is taking care of business then honey give him a calendar and remind him things cause now and days are so many loosers out there that make your forgetfull husband look like the catch of the century.... think of times when you really needed him were you sick?? was he there?? i dont know that but you do....love show many different ways. my advice is remind dont expect when its comes to him is all.good luck.
2006-07-04 10:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say I love you is easy, but to show I love you takes a lot of hard work, but it is worth every moment.
2006-07-04 11:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋