im married woman(dont have baby yet) and not very happy with it bcause i found that my husband is not care enough and have a parent in law who control my life so much i cant enjoy my life at all, cant explore my life...feel so depress..have no courage to change it...i love to travell and find the beauty of this world but i cant ...i realize that my marriage is not the best way to enjoy life...i need more fresh life n colorfull..hope i cant find it someday n have enough courage to change it..
2006-07-04 02:17:13 · 10 answers · asked by Jovan Lyn 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Try counseling
If that does not work, get a lawyer...................
2006-07-04 02:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand and the best starting point is a good education.
Stay on the pill, don't bring a child into a unhappy marriage.
That only complicates the situation. While going to votech or some other adult school.. Nurses training takes less than 2 years and a job is easy to find. When you get out get a good job.
This builds self esteem and even makes marriages a lot better.
Don't look to your husband for your happiness. That is not his responsibility. You have to find a circle of women friends to confide in and the best place to do that is in a vocational school.
2006-07-04 02:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what makes you happy if you have o divorce him enjoy your life the times of the woman doing what th man wants just cause there married is over or at least in is in the USA not sure where your from go do your travelling and while you are have a taste of something diffrent from each place you go to
2006-07-04 02:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by OZoNE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live each day one day at a time and stop expecting something that you do not deserve. You only get what you put into life. This way you will not be disapointed when things don't go your way and if it does, then appreciate it.
2006-07-04 02:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know how to enjoy life? Buy yourself some whiskey or some shnapps, party all night long, get laid, get stoned of your a**, turn on some music made for partying, and bam! your all set to enjoy your life.
2006-07-04 02:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Trash Can Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The way and only way to enjoy your life is to believe and trust in Jesus Christ, I want to let you know he created you and the whole universe. Love, peace and comfort that come from Him can't be compared with any.
Thank you and trust in the LORD JESUS CHRIST.
2006-07-04 02:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jovial Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live life by the golden rule "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" and pray about it, when they dont treat you fairly. From my experience, prayer does change things. Try to find a prayer partner; someone who stands in agreement with you. God Bless and best wishes for your marriage
2006-07-04 02:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by Alecia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi first of all ,I feel sorry for my kind ,,,,reason of these sufferings are that humanity is looking to life more physical rather than spiritual ,is out of guidance or out of track as a result even relationships are in trouble all around the world ,some worse than others ,,, love is been shattered by lack of knowledge among humanity , could be worse ,,,,,God has created us to know him & to worship him , love one another and try to serve each other but instead humanity out of track of guidence becomes selfish & not appreciating the real life anymore as has no proper teacher anymore ,is like dead ,only physically alive,,,,,,,
Humanity every now & often has to be reminded by God who they are & what they are created for, other wise even the good he has given to them from before is not working for them ,as needs a renew in understanding with his new teacher ,,,,,,,,
was said at the end of time by Jesus( is one of the prophets of God ) people become lovers of material rather than lovers of God ,,,,unholy and unclean ,,,,children disobedient to their parents .
thats why humanity is in trouble losing the direction in life ,have to come back to real life & this new teacher of God ( messenger of God ) has the key to the pains of the world of humanity ,,,,,,, he gives it a new life ,,,,,,, Good luck my friend,,,,,study the new ,,,,,as world has become new ,,,,everything has to be done new ,,,,,,thank you ,,,,
2006-07-04 02:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by draagon13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the marriage
tell the mother in law to piss off
go and explore the world and have fun!
2006-07-04 02:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-07-04 02:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋