Alrighty so I have this friend whom I have a huge crush on. Me and him have been friends for about 4years now. Of coarse i'm not going to make my move because he has a girlfriend whom he had been with for about 7months now. Anywho, this girl that I sometimes talk to thinks that it's a bad idea to keep on talking to him since he has a girlfriend, esspassily the fact that I like him a lot. ((I have no idea how she figured it out.)). My friend doesn't trust him because she thinks he's a player for talking to other girls that are his friends even though he has a girlfriend. I don't think that defines a player, I think that's sweet that he's not forgetting his friends just because he has someone. Anywho, is it bad that I'm talking to him a lot? The first time we Imed each other we talked for about 4-6hours in the first 3days. What do you think?
2006-07-04 01:37:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Note--Sorry that I typed a lot of ANYWHO's I don't really talk like that.
** Also, would it be bad if me and him hung out as friends by ourselves? I think it might be awkward but what do you think?**
2006-07-04 01:44:10 · update #1
There's no problem in talking to one of your friends, if y'all are just friends I don't see why y'all can't hang out. Friends do it all the time. Good luck!
2006-07-04 01:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Shawny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know exactly what you're doing. There's a big difference between talking to someone platonically and talking to someone you're interested in. He sounds like scum and you would be doing his currently girlfriend a big favor by making a move. Sorry if this sounds harsh but be real.....at least with yourself.
2006-07-04 08:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that doesnt define a player and its not bad to be friends with a guy who has a girlfriend, i think so too that its sweet of him not forgetting his friends, if u heed to ur friends advise by ignoring him he may think that u are jealous of him and his girlfriend so all i can say is u still maintain him as ur friend cos life is short.
2006-07-04 08:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We often think we have a crush on someone when actually its and infatuation. We need people to have as friends and when they are of the opposite sex, confusion often clouds our judgement. Think hard about this one and if it is a crush, tell him, so maybe you can move on.
2006-07-04 08:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say his girlfriend wants to like you, but just gets annoyed by your constant use of "anywho".
2006-07-04 08:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋