I am very happy with sex with women, but I have always liked to "look" at men, actually seeing a video of a guy being sucked turns me on, but I don't see myself ever being "hands on" with a guy. I never have yet, and I know that I definitely would never do anal with a guy, that does NOT turn me on.
Can someone who is "straight" answer and tell me whether it is common to "look" and admire other guys without being bi ?
2006-07-04 01:33:58 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
there's nothing wrong looking at another man..you are turn on for the fact that you identify with the guy who get the bj...not the fact that you want to blow him.....that's the difference......
2006-07-04 01:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it just matters how you are looking at the guy at the time. If you are looking at another guy and admiring his physical appearance such as "I wished that I looked like that" then that is okay- as long as you are comparing. But, I would consider someone as bi or at least bi curious by that person looking at the same sex or having thoughts of the same sex in sexual acts or moments. Ever one has such thoughts from time to time but if it has become a habit for you then the only thing that I can say is try it and see. Besides I look at someone being bi as a person that will never have to worry about going home a lone- that person wins either way. I am not bi but my boyfriend is.
2006-07-04 08:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by pacifia1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight-----since you specified.
I don't know how common as I haven't exactly asked around. There is also the problem of specifying exactly what constitutes "looking" and "admiring"
I am of the opinion that everyone of us falls along a spectrum of orientation rather than being at one end or in the middle. What I am saying is that I might be 90 percent hetero and 10 percent homo--perhaps you might characterise yourself similarly.
It is true that young teens engage in homosexual activity but then grow out of it---cited by some as proof that homosexual orientation is a choice. More accurate to say, that sex with other boys is available and the drive for sex is enough to cause boys to try each other out. When girls become available, the boys enjoy their sexual activity of choice.
Also, in prisons, men who consider themselves hetero have sex with each other.
Because homosexuality has such prejudice against it, I think people don't regard themselves properly.
Can you bear identifying yourself as mostly hetero but with some amount of homosexual orientation in the mix?
2006-07-04 08:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me bisexual means having sexual relations in some way with both sexes and having no qualms about it with either one. I believe that what you are experiencing is the artistic nature of sex. After all it is very erotic and your looking at other men is simply being aware of who you are and appreciating everything about manhood, it certainly doesnt make you gay or bisexual...I wish you well your journey...just be careful who you fall in love with because that could be the undoing of your enjoyment as an onlooker and you may end up actually becoming a participant...then you would hands down say you are bi...
2006-07-04 08:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by curiouscat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I admire both men and women just like I admire deer; all three are beautiful. Though I'm grossed out by even the thought of two women. As for two men, well I'm totally grossed out with that.
I'd say it's pretty normal to find a male athlete aesthetically pleasing. Just like we find poetry, or art: pleasing.
2006-07-04 08:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by smile4763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone looks, but mostly it is just a comparison interest, or the "WOW that guys a monster" factor.
If you are having deeper feelings then you may be Bi.
If you are married ask if your wife would like a threesome and make sure the other guy is bi. Then you will find out for sure.
WWW.adultfriendfinders.com
2006-07-04 08:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many males like if women lick or suck their phallus.Some get the women do it.Others do not like to ask for it.If both partners like it anything is normal.You are normal but probably reserved.
2006-07-04 08:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think so.
I am straight, hetero, female that would not willingly participate in a "girl on girl", however watching them go at it turns me on too.
Enjoy "looking".
2006-07-04 08:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pegasus90 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Chic Mcgee on the BOB AND TOM SHOW!!!
2006-07-04 08:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by happyjack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i can tell you is try and get a medical Aid "ma friend" coz you're un stoppeble
2006-07-04 08:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋