Picture the scene. You are both together, you see someone you find attractive, and you know that once that person passes you, you will never clap eyes on them ever again. Should you say that you like that person to your partner? or should you just not bother? I'm not sure what would be the right thing to do here.
On the other hand I believe that if it's someone you are going to see a lot, then you should say you like them. Please help.
2006-07-04 01:07:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on the kind of relationship you have with your wife and if you know how she would react. I often comment on pretty women I see pass by and my wife does the same with men. We are just like that. I think the "right" thing to do is to truly respect you wife and to show her that you only want her and no one else. That is the right thing to do. It is just that some people accept that just being married does not change the fact that you are still attracted to other people. Keeping this out in the open is in our view better than bottling this up. That is our view anyway. I think you should speak to your wife about it in a reassuring way.
2006-07-04 01:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 11⤊ 4⤋
how can you like some one at first glance? no, you just find the person attractive. you shouldn't tell your partner unless they have in some way expressed that it would be okay for you to tell them, otherwise they will think that you don't find them attractive and you are always comparing them to the people you see.
by the way if you are attracted to someone you see all the time you should consider how much you like that person and who you really want to be with, but under no circumstances should you tell your partner because they will think you are going to cheat with this person and it will worry them every time the person is around and only cause pain.
2006-07-04 01:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's just a little crush- you find them attractive but are not acting on it and don't see them often then there's no point in telling anyone and making them feel like they're less than adequate for you. If it's more than that you NEED to tell your partner so that any problems can be worked out or at the very least your partner can dump your cheating *** and move on with their life.
2006-07-04 01:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your partner, why treat them this way? How is it going to help your relationship to tell your partner that you find someone else attractive? How about telling them you find them attractive? and if you like the "look" of someone Else - why not suggest a similar look for them... Variety is the spice of life as they say....
2006-07-04 02:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the purpose of telling your partner? You could be making your partner feel very insecure and feel that you are looking for someone new. If you explaned your comments to your partner for how they are intended, just as looking, she/he might understand.
2006-07-04 01:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i'm a male and that i might fret a pair of recent woman in my existence who has 3 toddlers from 3 diverse adult males, i might attempt to clarification why she have been given into this occasion, and why she might desire to not carry a dating down. 2 toddlers from 2 diverse fathers might additionally reason me difficulty yet i might think of that perchance the 1st or 2d baby might have been unplanned. Then merely how long it would be formerly this new woman in my existence have been given pregnant and that i became going to be a clean father yet not with merely my own baby yet 3 different fathers to stress approximately, it does not count how good this woman's existence became, no count if she had a job, residing house, vehicle etc. i might difficulty merely how far this woman might opt to circulate and then anticipate me as a clean companion to settle for 3 different adult males toddlers to be one kin. Sorry if this upsets you yet you're traumatic approximately telling your new companion approximately your concern and this may be my view, your new companion may be diverse, and that i does not blame him if he subsidized out of this new dating.
2016-12-08 15:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by leatherwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep that kiind of stuff to yourself. There is just some things better left unsaid.I mean how would you feel if they done this to you?That would make your partner feel like ****.See where i am going with this.
2006-07-04 03:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and you partner are very close, then yeah, mention it... Maybe have a bit of a game from it...
If there are issues with your partner, then maybe best to not mention anything, but have a sly look...
2006-07-04 01:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say like some one the statement is relative, there must be something that you like about that person,if you want to say so to spite your partner it is very wrong,you may like the way people dress, their manners,the way they comport themselves and you could say it to your partner but manner of speech and tone must not suggest that you prefer them to your partner.
2006-07-04 01:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should say anything, your only going to offend your partner and possibly start making them paranoid that you have a roving eye.
2006-07-04 01:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by ladyjinx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋