I have a friend she is 12 years old and when she was in California she had sex with a 17 year old and she said he pulled before he cummed..Her stomach is like huge but my friends mother said it just fat. I tried telling her to tell her mom about this but she wouldn't...What should I do to help her?
2006-07-04 00:40:19 · 18 answers · asked by snowangel03ak 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If her mom doesnt wanna listen then i dont think theres much u can do can u? Just let her be and in a few months, u will all know the truth.
2006-07-04 00:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by ☆The-Siren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs a pregnancy test. When did she have sex in California, how long ago? If he didn't use a rubber she could be pregnant. Only takes 1 sperm. even if he pulled out there's a chance 1 leaked into her.
Get her to get a pregnant test. Your local health department will do this, confidentially. Her mother won't know.
If she is, she needs to get care immediately. The first 3 months are crucial to the baby. This is when things start developing. If she starts gaining weight, her mother will find out eventually.
She needs to take care of her AND her baby. Good luck.
2006-07-04 02:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by dixiegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of signs to pregnancy other than weight gain.
Has she missed her period? How long ago did the unprotected sex take place?
Your friend can check on a pregnancy test that you can buy in a drug store or walmart. Most pregnancy tests won't be able to read if your friend is pregnant, if she takes the test only one or two weeks after she had unprotected sex. It takes about a month after she had unprotected sex for pregnancy tests to detect a baby.
Your friend should tell her mother. Its very important that she know that her daughter is sexually active. Besides pregnancy, your friend can also get diseases from unprotected sex. If she can't tell her mother, then she should tell a health teacher or school nurse and ask that they make recomendations.
2006-07-04 00:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by luckybluebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did this happen? Why do you think she is pregnant? The guy can be charged with rape as that is illegal, it doesnt matter that she consented, he can still be charged.
If I were you I would stick by your friend no matter what. If she is pregnant she is going to need all the help she can get.
Being pregnant at a young age isnt the end of the world.
Go with her to see a free clinic and get them to check it out and yeah just stick by her.
2006-07-04 00:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ammie J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am sorry about your friend. She is too young to be pregnant and however much we hope her mom is right, the chances are just too slim. Just be there for her as a friend. Do not pressure her so much as I believe she is under a lot of stress. Try offering her counselling in a 2nd person point of view. All in all things will work our in the end
2006-07-04 01:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your friend take a pregnancy test and then have her show it to her mom. If a baby is born, dont let her take advantage of you (even the best of friends do this becasue there under stress). She may wnat you to babysit all the time if her parents work while she go's and haves fun. Good luck and beware she may get cranky if she is pregnant.
2006-07-04 05:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by summer luvver :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police 17 years old should know better not to do that with a 12 year old!
2006-07-04 00:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by jessica k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 1, be her friend
you could take her to a free clinic for a pregnancy test or pick one of the home kits up at the drug store...they are very accurate and easy to use these days
pulling out does not stop getting pregnant
if she is pregnant or if she is not....just be her friend and stand by her ... help her get through it if she is pregnant
....just continue to be a freind...she will need them
2006-07-04 00:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a pregnancy test. And tell her to stop having sex until she is older. If she is not grown up enough to talk to her mom that she might be pregnant then she is not grown up enough to have sex!!
2006-07-04 00:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a foll no can become preg at the age of 12
2006-07-04 06:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋