We dated for a year and a half. and we recently broke up because we had some problems due to her husband, and recently she called me again after we said goodbye. She is NOT IN LOVE with him, and if he wasn't in the picture we would be perfect together. I know life isn't fair, but I know she is the one for me.
2006-07-04 00:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Juan R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is getting the best of both worlds - why is she not leaving him? How does that make you feel? Do you realize you are only getting crumbs of her attention? You don't think you deserve more than that? Someone that is willing to do the right thing by you and for you?
If she is "the one" for you, then let her go... if she comes back (divorced!), then she was yours... if she doesn't, then it is on her... and someone that is worthy of you will come your way... but you have to let her go 'cause she is just being very selfish and love, love is not selfish... good luck
2006-07-04 00:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kandela 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In this situation, she needs to be the one to decide on where the relationship with you needs to go. She needs to figure out whether or not to end the marriage. Keep in mind that there are more than 3 billion women on this planet and you never know where that PERFECT one will show up. Yes, she may be it, but as a single guy, you have an infinite number of other possibilities. I say until she has her relationship figured out, give her some space and look around yourself. It's the right thing to do.
2006-07-04 00:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by kazoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will never work out for you. She is taken. Why would you want to take the chance that she will cheat on you. Keep looking for the woman of your dreams. There are many single fish in the sea!
Good luck!
G.G.
2006-07-04 00:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, a married cheater that brings problems, confusion and turmoil into your life is the one for you. Whatever floats your boat hey.
2006-07-04 01:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a few months off. Then take a few more. After that take a few more. SHE IS CHEATING. If she loved you as much as you do her she would seperate immediately and divorce quickly after to be with you.
2006-07-04 00:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by angel739902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run just turn around and run the other way it is so not the right place your in she will never leave her husbend
2006-07-04 00:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by silver01222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"...but I know she is the one for me."
...Sorry to say, but I don't think so. If she is, then she wouldn't be with her husband anymore but with you. I advice you to avoid her or anything that's got something to do with her. It might hurt now, but your heart will heal (if you let it heal).
2006-07-04 00:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by MadnessRedefined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don''t try to spend your time on some people who never spent time on you,maybe you can meet her needs sometimes,but not for your left life.
move on,brother
I was in the same situation before.trust me
2006-07-04 01:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she didn't love him... she would not stay
2006-07-04 02:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋