Why do people consider a girl who likes to show her breasts on the beach, to be a slut?

Question

I have great boobies and yes, I like to show them. But I am free to be a slut if I wish, so why would it bother people and as I have noticed, mainly the gals around me! Are they just jealous?

Answer 1

If you got it, flaunt it!

Answer 2

Girls around you might be afraid that their boyfriends look more at you then at them. If they would be more secure about themselves, and that has nothing to do with the size of boobies, they would not have a problem so much with other women. It's them who have the problem, not you.

This whole prudity comes from religion where the whole naked body is/was seen as taboo.

My opinion is that there are 6 billiard people on this planet. Half of them is female, half male. So, why can the men show their bear breast but women can't? It's completely ridiculous.
The more people like you just show themselves, the more it will be an accepted thing. I know that is a fact, because I live in Europe where it was also taboo, but now you see it everywhere. It's not a problem anymore at all.

Go for it girl, people who call you a **** are jealous or at least very narrowminded.

Answer 3

When you say "show her breasts", do you mean just be on the beach in a bikini with great breasts, or do you mean actually flashing people or be topless? There is a big difference.
Just having great breasts is not a problem, but if you are flashing guys, then you may be making other women jealous that you are trying to steal their man, and you will get a huge backlash.
So if you want to be topless, stick to beaches in Europe, where they just don't care at all.
You could always try a nudist resort, no one there will bother you for being topless.
And anyway, if you love being topless so much, why don't you send me an email and we will start you up a website where you can make tons of money being topless. That way, everybody wins!

Answer 4

A lot of people consider a girl who exposes her breasts regularly to be immoral or inconsiderate of other people. Many men aren't discretionate and have an attraction to the female breasts and buttocks, whether their a partners or someone elses, whereas a lower percentage(if any in a particular place/certain time) of women are attracted to those features. That being said, the issue might not be that women are jealous of your breasts, but angey at their partners for paying more attention to you, than themselves. Instead of going around carelessly flaunting your breasts, think about how other people are going to feel when you do so, and not just the majority. Is your promiscuousness going to offend or put other people in discomfort? Are other people going to be upset, nervous, or uncomfortable with your display? It's important to be considerate and respectful of other people, especially in public place.

In my opinion, it isn't a jealousy matter, it's a consideration and morality matter. A lot of women see girls who flaunt their breasts as immoral, because it isn't typical in most parts of the American nation. While it's seen on television and people are lead to believe it happens a lot, it honestly doesn't. By societies standards it's promiscuous and obscene, and unless your on a nude beach where nudity(of any sort) is allowed, then it is considered a felony. Police code 311, indecent exposure.

All I have to say...
Think about other people before you do something, because you might be comfortable showing your breasts off, but other people might not be comfortable with hte matter. Other people might be uncomfortable, feel akward, or even intoimidated. Have respect for other people, and make sure that there aren't children, families, or couples who don't need intimidation, or competition.

Answer 5

Some people just think its rude, especially if there are children around, breasts have become sex symbols over the years and not what they are actually used for (feeding children). People can't see that it's just anatomy, because the media has been using breasts to sell their products and most sleazy magazines there are girls with their breasts out, it's all about public perception. Yes some may be jealous, but it may just be that they are brought up thinking breasts = sleazy magazines = slut

Answer 6

karma


As I go through life, fixing my mistakes one at a time, I’ve learned a thing or two about Karma, and part of keeping good Karma is sharing it with others. I hope these notions help you as much as they’ve helped me.
Do good things and good things will happen to you. Do bad things and it will come back and bite you in the ***.

If you want a better life, you need to be a better person.

Bad luck might be contagious. It wouldn’t be fair to bring someone into your life until you clean yours up.

Never underestimate the power of confidence. And never underestimate fifteen beers, a little enlightenment, and the power of Rob Base and DJ Easy Rock.

A person needs a little rest after having his moustache tickled at a gay bar.

You have to do the hard things in life sooner or later.

If you want the reward, you have to do the work.

The secret to life is fixing all the bad things that you’ve done.

Whether picking up trash, returning stolen merchandise, or helping a homosexual find love, it always has the same reward… feeling good about yourself.

Karma. You got to love it.

Answer 7

Why do you feel a need to show 'anyone'/'everyone' your boobs? Do you get your jollies that way? It used to just be ol' men in raincoats that ran around flashing unsuspecting people and CHILDREN with the display of a part of the human anatomy which is generally reserved for private encounters with a lover-- or, if a whore, with paying customers... but even the majority of whores keep their t*ts to themselves until someone pays to see 'em. If you enjoy showing off your body so much, check out clubs and resorts where others do the same and forget the 'shock reaction' from others you obviously seek... thrill yourself in private with mirrors, or videotape your wonderful titties and watch 'em go bouncy-bouncy if that's fun for you.

But, mainly... we've laws and morality issues which you don't seem to think apply to you, but guess what?

Answer 8

Well... most American girls are not used to seeing other womens boobs on the beach. We don't have that many top-less beaches here. It's probably more shock than anything. We're in a culture where it's taboo to show your goodies off, even when it's OK to do so. And, I'm sure some of them are jealous also!

Answer 9

Of course the root of this is jealousy.

You are the competition to these other women, and they don't like to lose the reproductive war. It is a deep-seated defense mechanism.

And, of course, we can't overlook the corrupting influence of two-thousand year old moral values, that get taught to them in Church.

;-p

Answer 10

because, you are an attn getter......and there are families and couples, and young children at the beach. You wanna show your boobs how bout taking em out in your parents backyard BBQ, or head to an appropriate place.... where they won't be found offensive........have some respect for others...and some decency bout yourself.... You like it that much, go get paid for it....

Answer 11

Find a Strip Club!