they had only been married for 16 months when my sister found out that he was cheating on her and last monday the other woman gave birth to his child...what do you do to help your sister cope with the pain?
2006-07-04 00:10:45 · 22 answers · asked by basak a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get a grip on yourself
this is your sister's problem, not yours
just be supportive to her and be a good attentive listener when she needs it
2006-07-04 00:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about killing him buy i would totaly agree you need revenge. I had a friend go threw this recently she had been with the guy from child hood and he left her now he's in hell Karma will get him but if you want to help it along get a lawayer . It's great you love your sister and want to help if you really want to get even send him a go screw your self basket . You send a lipstick stained shirt, vasaline, a dildo and you send it to where he works Ever one will be talking about what he got on his desk LOL i wish your sister luck and a reminder there are tons of fish in the sea ..... Go fishing
2006-07-04 07:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by silver01222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u or ur sister should stress on the situation, though i can't say that i understand what your going through, but its obvious that he doesn't care any more and has moved on to start another family, so i would suggest that your sister wash him out of her hair and move on just be glad she didn't have any children with him, if u need to though let her cry her heart out but don't stop smilingfor a waste of time like him, and killing him isn't going to do u any good if you look at in the long term! :)
2006-07-04 07:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. Listen to her without passing judgement on their relationship. Its gonna be very very hard for you to listen to her be in pain. She has to work this out for herself. If she doesn't want to be with him anymore...support that. If she does, then you have to support that too.
unfortunately, the only way problems within a relationship get resolved...is by the people in that relationship. No matter how much you love your sister the only thing you can do for her is to let her know how much you love her and give her a safe place to vent or to go if she needs it.
2006-07-04 07:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by luckybluebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her, and be kind, and remind her that she deserves bettter, and he is a loser, and better to know now then spend life with a scum bag lying cheat,,\
does she have children with him,, if not count blesssings and go out and find a "REAL MAN" because that jerk doesnt qualify and certainly does not deserve your sister, he will pay in this life or another ,, just be there for her and patient with her moods.
she is lucky to have you, and that you care so much. good for you
good luck,
ps the best revenge is living well,
2006-07-04 07:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a very good lawer, then stay out of it! advertising that you want to kill someone is a good way to get locked up. and should anything happon to your sister's hubson, You will be the one the police will have in custy first! not the person that done the killing
2006-07-04 07:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by echochat40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont kill him ,you could end up in trouble for saying stuff about wanting to kill her husband on a public web site. i think it could be considered terrorist threating!!!!!!
just be there for your sister and help her with her pain the best way you can.
2006-07-04 07:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by stevenwc444 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No my dear this is not a time to kill him because he has another wife and child. So you please ask your sister to have patience and loyal and you as well. Because some matters we should accept it as the will of God.
2006-07-04 07:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by muzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say u r sister to divorcees her husband than u case on him to spend u r life a good condition ..Than kill him OK bye good luck
2006-07-04 07:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give Peace&Love the 10 points she's got it right
2006-07-04 07:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋