2006-07-03 23:36:46 · 13 answers · asked by yu l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well,this girl must have loved you with all her heart!!!
why did you want to break up with her in the first place?
I do not know what your reasons are but if it's only somethin trivia,then I say do re-evaluate the situation. Ask yourself whether or not you really love this girl.If you do ,then you may want to give it another try.Who knows your relationship may grow beautiful then it was before. While doin your thinking,never do it in a noisy place or with any distractions. Cos you are never gonna make a good decision that way.
.It doesnt hurt to try.
Perhaps you still love her but are in a confused state of mind for some reasons too.If that's the case,tell her very nicely (do not sms her or email instead tell it to her face)that you need some time off to do some soul searching and you'll be back for her.(that is if you want to)Tell her its not neccesarily a break up,just a''time off''.
If she understands,she will leave you alone for that period of time that you asked for.Take that ''time off '' period to be by yourself and to keep in touch with your own feelings. Remember never allow your peeps or others to pollute your mind or make the decision for you.But I must warn you if you never plan to come back never say the ''time off'' thingy to her cos you will break her heart big time boy.
But on the other hand,if you feel that it's really over between you and her and that you really have no more feelings for her whatsoever,then explain to this girl very carefully why you really wanna call it off.Say it nicely and with a calm mind.
So whatever plannings that you wanna make,think carefully.
I wish you good luck!
2006-07-03 23:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I very agree MS. sleeping beauty say..
You have to deliberate about your problem between first
Maybe the problem is come from you not you girlfriend right
I holp you can happiness.
2006-07-04 19:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Patty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously wants to make the relationship work. I would give it time, and try to make it work. Or be really mean to her, and ignore her, so that she will break up with you.
2006-07-03 23:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by the penguins stole my sanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her one more time and then move on. Go out with other girls. If she is obsessive (as it sounds) get a restraining order.
2006-07-03 23:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her for a while, if you know what I mean. If she is really that attached to you, she'll come back quick and you'll get some "time off."
2006-07-03 23:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with another girl
2006-07-03 23:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by axiomgeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are telling me you cant walk away lol what kind of realionship do you have?does she have someing she can use against you if you do break up with her?just walk away.
2006-07-03 23:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack your bags and run away from home and live under the bridges for the rest of your life...
2006-07-03 23:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away.
2006-07-03 23:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say I said no now leave me alone!!!! and walk away!!!!
2006-07-03 23:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by *~KikI~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋