2006-07-03 23:30:30 · 27 answers · asked by miz_roudy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
be ur damn self. if he cant handle it, then 4get him.
2006-07-10 12:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey love is blind or rather being in love is blind. We never see the person we fall in love with's negative aspects until much later. At first he probably thought it was mysterious and sexy for you not show your feelings. Now it's just irritating. You can't do anything. He will have to decide if he loves you enough to accept this part of your personality. If he doesn't there is a person out there who will love regardless. You could try your hardest to show him some feeling but if your not comfortable with this then you'll only make yourself miserable by trying to be someone you're not.
2006-07-04 06:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably waiting to see your feminie side, and you probably havent found that or learnt to appreciate it yet. Or maybe your just the way you are, and he aint the right guy for you.
Oh well, whatever the case, life goes on.
And is he what you are looking for in a guy?
These questions need answering.
I suggest that you both talk about how you feel and where you wanna go from there.
2006-07-04 06:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing is different from feeling. He may know and not really know. Now that he really knows and he feel its not ok, if it is changeable, why not effect that? If un alterable, ask him for a guide on what he wants and go along- as long as your health and constitution will not be tampered with. Life is a bargain.
2006-07-10 05:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by mikail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found it very hard to show my feeling but when i met my husband it all changed that how i knew he was the one for me cause i could open up to him,
but for you it might be different i believe if they got with you how you were then, then why do you need to change now, i have always been told don't let anybody change you if you don't want to because thats who you are
2006-07-10 08:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by hartigan18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him is the easy answer. But if you have feelings for him and IF he is right then you might want to think of changing. BUT since he knew you before he started dating you then you are waht you are.
2006-07-04 06:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would answer, but I only speak and read English. You write with a dialect that I simply do not understand.
2006-07-05 07:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change your personality, it's just that you don't show him your feelings sometimes, if you're shy about it in public, then just show him in private, then you can start to gradually show them in public.
Showing feelings, also, doesn't mean just having sex, if that is what your boyfriend is implying. Use protection if you do!
2006-07-04 06:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to da gh n ty a n4 tu im.
2006-07-04 06:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by migelito 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
ask why he didn't notice any of this before
whats "thug" got to do with it?
it's not like you robbed a grocery store
talk to him about it and ask how you can change and why he brings this all up now
2006-07-04 06:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by RandomChickSam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he is right? if so why? keep communication open and don't get defensive! he may be saying this out of love and wants you to open up, I don't presume to know him or you but figure out the motive of the comment,(we men are not always tactfull) talk....
2006-07-04 07:39:25 · answer #11 · answered by russ a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋