I have always had striaght sex......... but for many, many years I have fantasized about female/female sex. I just wondered how many others out there have thought about exploring and experimenting, later in life. I know a lot of people do this when they are in thier teens and 20's. I'm not bi.....but I believe I might be bi-curious.
2006-07-03 23:05:00 · 18 answers · asked by blueyedangel71 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I see some people making the comment that I may not be having satisfactory sex with men............ that is so far from the truth. I have regular sex with one man. He totally pleases me..... but I just fantisize about what it would be like to be with another female...... I don't know if I'd act on it... but it has been on my mind for several years.
2006-07-04 03:16:08 · update #1
whats wrong w/ having fun?
2006-07-03 23:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shrimpkiss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give me a call. I can help you with that!
No seriously, I realized it myself when I was 21. I'd always thought of myself as straight and had only dated/had sex with guys. Then I fell in love with a woman. I thought it was just because it was her. So when that relationship ended after 6 years, I tried again to date a guy. But I felt nothing and found myself only attracted to women. Over the last couple of years, I've only dated women and I'm happy. It's natural for a woman to fantasize about having sex with another woman. I have several friends who were married and realized in their 30s and 40s that they were gay. But fantasizing about it and following through on it are two entirely different things. I have friends who are curious and wonder, but would never follow through on it. I would say if you find someone you're attracted to, then go for it. But be upfront with her. And if you start to get into it and realize that it's not what you want or thought it would be, then at least you'll know.
2006-07-04 08:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Paige 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women have this thought much more often than men. Have you ever watched a porno with girl on girl action and been more turned on by that than man on girl action? It has something to do with the tenderness women have that men lack. I know I am not lesbian or bi-sexual since I could never actually bring myself to have a sexual act with a woman. I don't think you need to experiment but just accept that you are normal and the need for more tenderness and romance. Just provide a very romantic situation with your partner and go with it, I am sure you will feel fulfilled. If not, you could be lesbian or with the wrong partner.
2006-07-04 06:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual is not a bad thing. It just is. If you see having a sexual encounter with a person of the same gender as cheating on your husband or boyfriend then by all means remain faithful and avoid the guilt. If not then try it you may like it.
2006-07-04 11:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wouldn't believe how many women are in the same boat........geez, even my own mother in her early 60's wonders sometimes as she's never had satisfactory sex with men...lately it seems that women are going out and experimenting in huge numbers and that's ok..........how will you know unless you try?? making love to a woman is so totally different than with men its almost indescribable!
2006-07-04 10:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by D~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a 29 yr old man, I have often fantasized about being a lesbian. I wouldn't mind a little girl on girl action...... Sorry bad joke ;)
2006-07-04 06:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just bi-curious. This question has been asked and answered before (tons of times) so look it up in the discover area.
2006-07-04 11:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, i'm not like that but i have a lot of friend that r that way there is nothing wrong.I say it u wanta be that way it is ur chose.I wouldn't judge u .If ur friends r like that is nasty u r a les they realy arent ur friend if u r it should not matter they should be ur friends though it all.
2006-07-04 06:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm then maybe you need some help because I know i dont fantasize sex with another girl.
2006-07-04 06:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are wonderful. Have one and have fun. No needs to feel guilty or label yourself. Just lay back and enjoy.
2006-07-04 22:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay,lesbianism and bisexual are unnatural sexual beheviours and are not recommended by God. (see the Bible-Romans 1:18-32)
¶ For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek.
17 For therein is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith.
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
19 ¶ Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
2006-07-04 07:46:15 · answer #11 · answered by elderatheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋