2006-07-03 22:41:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is a very common dilemna you are going through right now, I dont know the reason but based on experiences, at your age, you are trying to find your identity and in the process of doing so the problems arise with your parents, some of them they dont understand any of these. Your responsibility is to tell your parents openly on what you are going through. Maybe you need a little space and privacy. For now, deal with your problem with your parents, this is not a good site for you to go to ask as there are many bad people out there that will take advantage of you.
2006-07-03 22:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by trykindness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really didn't give much of why you are depressed and what is causing you and your parents to have a problem. I would hope that you would feel safe enough to sit down and talk to your parents about any problem that arises, from small to big... I would love to help you out and if you would like someone to lean on, send me an email, I'll gladly try to help you in any way I can. Hang in there, it does get better :)
2006-07-04 05:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents were sixteen once, they know the pitfalls and pressure, like drugs, relationships, etc... I'm assuming you think they're tooooo controlling, imposing unrealistic boundaries like be home by ten o' clock and stuff like that. Well all they are trying to do, is protect you from getting hurt, emotionally and physically, coz they love you. Try talking to them, negotiating for more time out, just 15 minutes to start with. Stick to what you agree, show them you're mature enough respect their wishes and they will allow you a little bit more freedom.
2006-07-04 05:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by swanlen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this age there is likely to be a kind of power struggle. tennager and parents struggle for space and one-upmanship. they try to dominate.
however, in majority of cases it would resolve with time.
so be brave and accept the situation and talk to your parents to impress upon your point of view.
else find some good people to talk and share with to vent your unnecessary feelings.
2006-07-04 06:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, first of all, you should refer a Psychologist for the treatment of your depression, and this is very important for your health.
Secondly, pleases don't dispute with your parents or any ones else who are against you.
good bless you.
2006-07-04 05:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just an age factor dear...You will be normal soon....try to keep urself bzy...Dont think negative about ur parents..They are the blessings of God...
Best of Luck!!!
Thanks,
Sumiya.
2006-07-04 07:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to add some details...we all had problems with our parents at 16. Please include details regarding feeling depressed. Really want to help.
2006-07-04 05:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i don't really know what is the problem in fact, but, all i guess you should do is to pay attention to what they try to tell you and than, conclude the idea with your own way of beliefs,so that you can take a breath...i wish you luck!
2006-07-04 05:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by dnd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that screen name at 16 I can't imagine what problems you might be having with your parents...
-Dio
2006-07-04 05:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by diogenese19348 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure we can help you with whatever you got...but what is it exactly...its ok to b e deppresed sometimes you'll get over it..and the problem with your parents are easliy resolved.
2006-07-04 05:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Spinywolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋