Hi, I know some people have asked this question before, but I just need some clarity, what exactly does it mean when someone "loves you", as apposed to someone not being "in love with you"? whats the difference which is more important, which hurts less?
2006-07-03 22:15:58 · 15 answers · asked by Ginny C & Hobie D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
someone who loves sky's the limit,,some in love is just loving the idea and feeling of being in love not necessarily loving u.
2006-07-03 22:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Analysing the word love and how it's used in a sentence is useless. And this is because people all have different definitions for these tems.
Either way, love is love and if your husband loves you, take that has it is. If someone says to you they just love you like a relative, well that's easy to understand.
2006-07-03 22:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by NVgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. when you love something is quite a stark term for an admiration and appreciation for a certain thing in someones life (perhaps its also losely appreciation). I love my family and some of my friends because they help me out every day to do things i couldn't on my own - they are there for me. I may also love playing the violin becasue it completes my sanity/insanity balance!!
love itself is fully accepting someone for everything they are. Your parents naturally do this at birth! I have some friends who i could say i love because i accept them fully - any bad points and all the good becasue i see in them only the best person they can be and help them to acchieve this everyday i see them.
If i was 'in' love... I am 'in' an uncontrollable yet self-consenting dream. I am in a world of innocence and undoubted truth ready to be carried away. And if for one second I didnt believe in the dream - I wouldn't be 'in' love.
At first, relationship love is a crazy rush whereby you are naturally found in a state of nirvanna! this is the uncontrollable attraction stage with chemicals rushing through your brain.... there are ways to define this state so as to continue it into later stages of a relationship...but in both instances the fundamental concept is 'Oneness' - in all forms ( soul connections, making love, physical endeavours, living together......)
2006-07-03 22:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by failok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone loves you,Would be the kind of love for a real close friend...Now in love with you,Is the kind of love for husband and wife and marriage...The kind of in love is more important and loves is alot less hurtful...
Clowmy
2006-07-03 22:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this century love is just a friend thing, in love tends to be a more romantic meaning, their both about the same importance. it depends a lot of other things for which hurts less, if someone said they only like me as a friend but i cared about them as more then a friend i would get hurt greatly
2006-07-03 22:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by ditre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love signifies mutuality. It means you both equally share this feeling and are willing to do everything you can to maintain it. To just love someone could means friends and/or family.
2006-07-04 01:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by angel739902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who "loves you" is platonic, friendly, a kind of love you give to your brother or sister...but when you say " in love " it's reserve to a person you are "attracted" to...opposite sex...with a strong feeling of belonging...with desire...somebody you wanna talk about your future aspirations with at the same time you wanna sleep with that person...
2006-07-03 22:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some one who loves you like your mom she is going love you no matter what. some one who is in love with you can care just as much. but then again that could only be for so long then you guys just become friends and not feel that way any more.
2006-07-03 22:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone is a non-romantic love . . . like what you would have for your family, a pet, friends, etc.
Being in love with someone is a romantic love . . . like for your boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, lover, etc.
Should anything happen to the people you love, it will still hurt like Hell because you have an emotional attachment to them.
2006-07-04 05:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, let me give you my perspective on this. "in love" is that wonderful feeling you get when you first meet "Mr or Mrs or Miss or Mz Right" they do not wrong, they seem perfect in everyway and the physical attraction is truly amazing. when someone truly "loves you," they accept you as you are. they do not try to change you, manipulate you, is not impatient, or unkind. when someone "loves you," it is unconditional - no such thing as - if you loved me you would do this for me. personal experience has taught me that is is possible to be "in love" with someone who is not "in love with you/me" that is painful but endurable as are most things in this life. but if you are with someone that is not "in love with you" then maybe it is time to move on. real love is truly hard to find but i have been told that it is possible. good luck
2006-07-03 22:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by weeyummy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋