He is encouraging and gives me the opporunity to exercise my skills by doing little projects within the group. apart from the 'to the point' emails, we dont communicate. Last time we first spoke on the phone, he expressed so much grattitude, and praised me for my help and even asked me to give speech at the next monthly meeting. He appears so nice- not sure if only to me.
He is white, busy professional and i a black and just simple. What has made me to suddenly think of him so much and why may I be wrong about his attitude? How do I know he may be interested. Dont even know his age or if he's married. Any experiences to share?
2006-07-03 21:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes we do feel attracted to somebody who shows kindness to us and who appears to show an interest in us....but don't confuse the issue between professionalism and anything more...concentrate on your own self confidence..being proud of who you are (there is no such thing as simpla and black hun!) and developing healthy friendships...I wish you every happiness!
2006-07-03 21:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you are reading to much into it, I am nice to girls all the time in my job but it does not mean that I am intrested in them that way.
The question you need to ask yourself is are you attracted to him?
Some people can take a guy or women being nice to them for it to mean that they are attracted to them but maybe the guy is a really friendly person who gives out complements and praise for a job well done when it is required and gives credit where it is due to keep the team motivated and have a good work enviroment.
2006-07-03 21:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems a little bit strange but why not try asking him if he's married. Drop it into a conversation. Try ... I dunno ... striking up a convo about his plans for the weekend over lunch (that is, if you have lunch together). You should pick up some clues from that.
He may well be supportive of you to try to tell you he likes you. He may not, but you can try. I know I was like that once ... in fact, I probably still am! The trick is to pick up the (tiny) signals that tell you if it's just professional courtesy or if he does has feelings for you.
Hope that helps.....
2006-07-03 21:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by HiFi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be professional, ...appreciate the support...but do not fall in love just yet. He is in a power position..he can make you, break you- or make you, then break you... just like that. Be professional....so you have no regrets. Men often make you feel like it was you who showed interest and who flirted first after they got what they wanted....find out if he's married...there must be a way..so you don't start fantasizing about him, if he is.
2006-07-03 21:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, rely on a few things to figure this out... first, use your gut, and secondly, get to know him a bit more before trying to assess the situation -- go for lunch or coffee with him, or shoot a few emails back and forth with him... find out if he's married or not... until you get to know him, you won't know if this is just his personality with everyone, or if he's like this because he's really interested in you.
2006-07-03 21:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by miche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only see him once a month, and he doesn't try and see/talk to you more than that, then he's probably just a nice guy.
More than likely he is just a nice guy and is sincerely praising the work you do.
2006-07-03 21:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Maggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,, you sound unhappy... get out more and meet mr right...
your quote "i a black and just simple".. dont put yourself down..
you are intelligent enough to seek help for your worries...
you sound nice and sweet
i am white and i think black girls are gorgeous.. cool and sexy with lovely "booty" (get in touch!)
stay happy.. and dont worry so much x
2006-07-03 21:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by paulrb8 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's being supportive and respectful. It also sounds that you are really enjoying the attention, maybe too much!
2006-07-03 21:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-03 21:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋