i don't get erection with any female unless i feel true loving
its just a qusetion and i do hope i get the rite answer.in my case i got many chnaces to be with many girls,my friends we hang out together we do clubing and after that when it comes to making love i cant unless i truly feel that loving feeling. i have been around the world and its stays the same.on other hand if i have my girl frind with me no matter how drunk i m i can go on upto 5 to 6 times and i still can go more, what do you think is wrong with me? i do liek to be loved i do like girls but ................................. ways i dont think i have any sexual problem cuz its alll fine ,so let me hear from u....to tell you i get lots of girls..they likeme why i dont know...and here i am......
2006-07-03 21:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by love_lov_lie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have a very similar problem...if i dont feel some sort of loving(ie if i feel the girl just wants a one night stand..or that i feel that she is messing me about) then it just does not pop up....
it is very frustrating when this happens...so the next time you try it gets into your head ...very psychosomatic
I have used Viagra with these girls...and it does the trick
I am now settled with a girl whom i love, and she loves me...and the erection is the hardest i have known
you just might need extra help (will your doctor..(if you have been) not prescribe viagra..??? there is a firm that do "little blue pills"..why not try somethuing like this..???
if you need any more help on this..then you really need to see your doctor...or stick to a girl that you can love(in your head..before your bed)...take your time...
I found that it helped to talk to the girl before having sex....tell her you may have problems..and hope she can be understanding...if she can, then bingo..if not...then she isnt worth having sex with....there are plenty of lovely ladies out there..
hope you sort it out mate....
btw how old are you
Michael
2006-07-03 21:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are a very lucky man and the kind of man every woman deserves to have. You will make a great husband some day. Congratulations on your feelings and strive to stay that way- don't fight it.
2006-07-11 09:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're able to make love to your girlfriend, then you obviously have some kind of love for her. and if that's the case, why r u out with these chics and tryin' to get some? there's a difference between making love and "gettin some". most men are able to "go" whatever the circumstances. you might one of the rare men that's actually in touch with your emotional side. good for you!
2006-07-13 11:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you problem is your thinking about it too much. I member I would sometimes have the same problem when I first started dabbling in sex...your best bet is when it starts to happen clear your mind...don't think about reasons you can't perform. Because it will happen then...do you get what i'm saying? Your just jinxing yourself...its nothing medical or anything crazy like that...your just thinkin to much...but hey...thats just me
2006-07-03 21:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just one of thoes guys wo just need to find the right woman to be loved by and it takes time to find the right person to care about u know i really dont no how to make ur ? any eiaser but just wait baby ur woman will come and ur gonna enjoy it u no what i mean...........
2006-07-03 21:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your girl. She should be feeling very fortunate indeed.
2006-07-03 21:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are my kind of man, nothing wrong with you. good luck on finding true love.
2006-07-03 21:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not love it is lust because love means love love and love nothing except it.
2006-07-13 20:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Public Demand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋