My gf makes too much excuses to evade having sex. Last week she said i could have sex with other girls as far as I don't date them more than once. I took her advice, now she says she's breaking up with me because she was trying to find out if I was in love with her and i surely failed the test. Was I wrong????
2006-07-03 21:15:55 · 50 answers · asked by adriano 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no she is wrong for making excuses then telling u its OK to sleep with other people! if she hadn't had said it was OK would u have cheated on her? it's maybe to late for that now so i would forget her if u can and move on.
2006-07-03 21:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you where wrong but there has to be something wrong in the first place your gf should not have to test you and you should not have to sleep with other girls. Say you are so sorry and that you want her and only her find out why she is off sex and see if you can sort it out good luck
2006-07-03 22:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you were not wrong. Although many are saying you were in the wrong to sleep with other women, your girlfriend told you it was OK. If she had a problem with it, she should not have suggested it. Do you really want to be with someone who is going to pull crap like that and tell you it was a test? Find a woman who enjoys having sex with you more often. You will both be more happy.
2006-07-03 21:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Garth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships should not be about testing and playing games...I think maybe your gf has insecurities of her own and the only way either of you is going to succeed in any relationship is by communicating...ask to meet with her and get down to some serious discussion to decide whether this relationship stands a chance...another piece of advice is...the intimacy you share is generally based on the state of your relationship...food for thought hun...anyway..I wish you well and hope things work out for you!
2006-07-03 21:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you weren't wrong to have sex with other girls. Your girlfriend shouldn't say it's ok as a test. But you need to back off her about the sex. She doesn't want to do it, and the more you nag like a little child the more turned off by the idea she'll become.
2006-07-03 21:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Adalina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl says that you can sleep with other women she's either testing you or cheating on you, so yes, you were wrong, but you're probably better off without her in the long run.
2006-07-03 21:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH!!!
Man, you fell for that, hook line and sinker.
If she wasn't having sex with you, she just wasn't interested in you anymore.
She didn't want to look like the BAD guy, so she set you up to give herself a good excuse for breaking up with you.
Now, she comes out, smelling like a rose.
She wanted you to cheat.
Her reputation is safe and now she's free again.
I'm sorry. You were duped!
2006-07-03 21:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she probably said this out of anger, sarcasm, frustration, or a combination of the three. I think you probably knew this but decided to take her up on it anyway, and she responded by breaking up with you. Were you wrong? I think that depends on how you like the result. Are you in love with her?
2006-07-03 21:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How silly are you both! If this was a real grown up relationship then you both wouldn't need to be so stupid. Hopefully you will have learned by your mistakes and move on with a much more mature attitude in any future relationships that you will have!
2006-07-03 21:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were wrong....most girls dont want a relationship that is all sex...and if you go lookin for it somewhere else, she see's that you only have her in mind for one thing and that you dont really care about her...maybe u do maybe you dont..but to her you dating other girls just to get laid gives her a very bad opinion of you
2006-07-03 21:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. because females never tell you what they mean, they want you to guess. Its the games that girls play. They say that they don't like guys that are players, but it is all right for them to play these games. Which it shouldn't be you fault, since she couldn't grow up and be a lady. and stop playing girl games.
oh by the way, if a girl ask you if her butt looks big in anything. lie, lie, lie it is another game and trap.
2006-07-03 21:22:33 · answer #11 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋