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my husband told his brother about his wife being with a younger man who we saw her with at there home and what we saw as well what she was and had been doing. his brother alled this boys parents as well local law. they took her to jail .and he also told his friend about his wife to being with another young man he put her out after he called the law and he also called this boys parents to . my husbands brother is a minister. why would women degerade there family over what now . both are looking at it in my way of looking isnt worth that toward there family?

2006-07-03 21:04:32 · 9 answers · asked by whitmangal_2 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

my husbands. brother is a minister. and the other man is a coal miner. and he is a christan as well.

2006-07-03 23:02:06 · update #1

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your husband did the right thing toward his brother he had a right to know as well the other man as well if the two younger men are underage the two women will be tried as sexual preators . this is the law and i hope both men in time will find a real woman who has morals these two women didnt . my opion?

2006-07-03 21:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0 0

Maybe she was unhappy with her life and because of social influences she tried to live the ideal life but it wasn't her. The only one who really knows the answer to this is the wife (in this case). Doesn't matter if she tells the truth or not it will always be a mystery to others. Because you may never be able to do such actions and therefore never understand why one can make those actions.

2006-07-03 21:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0 0

TO: Floridafan... on our abundant life(from a previous question)
God’s Love: The Biblical Presentation

The modern message of the gospel is "God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life." However, our idea of "wonderful" and the world’s may be a little different. Take a sinner through the pages of the Book of Acts and show him the terrifying scene of boulders breaking the bones of Stephen. Then smile and whisper, "Wonderful..." Listen together to the sound of a cat-o’-nine-tails as it rips the flesh off the back of the apostle Paul. Follow together the word "suffering" through the Epistles, and see if you can get the world to whisper, "Wonderful!"

After such a ride down Honesty Road, they may think the pleasures of sin are a little more attractive than the call to "suffer affliction with the people of God." John MacArthur said, "We need to adjust our presentation of the gospel. We cannot dismiss the fact that God hates sin and punishes sinners with eternal torment. How can we begin a gospel presentation by telling people on their way to hell that God has a wonderful plan for their lives?"

Who in the world is going to listen if we are so blatantly honest about the Christian life? Perhaps not as many as are attracted by the talk of a wonderful plan. However, the answer to our dilemma is to make the issue one of righteousness, rather than happiness. This is what Jesus did. He used the Ten Commandments to show sinners the righteous standard of God (Luke 10:25,26; 18:18– 0). Once the world sees the perfect standard by which they will be judged, they will begin to fear God, and through the fear of the Lord, men depart from sin (Proverbs 16:6). They will begin to hunger and thirst after the righteousness that is in Jesus Christ alone.

If you study the New Testament you will see that God’s love is almost always given in direct correlation to the cross: herein is love, for God so loved, God commended His love, etc. (See John 3:16; Romans 5:5,6,8; Galatians 2:20; Ephesians 2:4,5; 5:2,25; 1 John 3:16; 4:10; and Revelation 1:5, among others.) The cross is the focal point of God’s love for the world. How can we point to the cross without making reference to sin? How can we refer to sin without the Law (Romans 7:7)?

The biblical way to express God’s love to a sinner is to show him how great his sin is (using the Law—see Romans 7:13; Galatians 3:24), and then give him the incredible grace of God in Christ. This was the key to reaching so many on the Day of Pentecost. They were "devout" Jews who knew the Law and its holy demands, and therefore readily accepted the mercy of God in Christ to escape its fearful wrath. When you use the Law to show the world their true state, get ready for sinners to thank you. For the first time in their lives, they will see the Christian message as an expression of love and concern for their eternal welfare, rather than of merely proselytizing for a better lifestyle while on this earth.

2006-07-03 21:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by I_Need_Help 3 · 0 0

Well, i think I was able to understand something of your story..not much, but little.

Anyhow, I like to comment on one of your statements in this story, you say ..."why would women degerade there family over what now."...

If I understood you properly, i would say , yes she did degrade her family, but th most important thing is that she has sinned, and Allah ( God) will never accept such behavior. Second thing, which is almost equally important, she has degraded herself, she has acted like an animal, a lady which can't be trusted, a cheater...If she looks in the mirror, she should feel ashamed of hersefl.

2006-07-03 21:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Abdulhaq 4 · 0 0

Gotta agree with Abdulhaq
This is a matter of lack of self-respect and respect for God (Jehovah)
SHe probably has some self-esteem issues...

To ES

WHOA, let me clarify that I completely concur, but the person was asking for a HUG!! They needed encouragement, not such a harsh brow beating--it wasn't the message, it was the delivery!!! If that person was talking directly to Jesus, he would hug them first, and THEN share the GOOD news of salvation. I would NOT imply that the ramifications of sin should be minimized, but that in order to win souls, we must first show the LOVE of Christ, then share the truth of our sinfulness and God's propitiation through Jesus Christ. Much love to you as you continue to share the true Gospel.

2006-07-03 21:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Floridafan 1 · 0 0

She just wasn't a good wife. For some women it's all about young guys, not happy families.

2006-07-03 21:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe the husband is not fulfilling her like the yournger boy??? Who knows why people do things...

2006-07-03 21:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by empowered2008 3 · 0 0

Some women are just whores and that is all they will ever be.

2006-07-03 21:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe she has become horny.

2006-07-03 21:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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