My crush of four years is finally paying attention to me and we've been 'talking' since December. Should I have sex with him because I've always wanted to, but i kinda dont wanna come off as slutty.
2006-07-03 20:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by Nic Jones 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hit that **** before its too late, you only live once... DO IT BIG!!
2006-07-03 20:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take it slow. the last thing you want to do is make a bad impression, like you said. So wait a while. If you've started dating and been dating for 3 months or something, then sure, if he shows signs of wanting to. But he's gotta show interest before you say anything, yanno? That way you'll know
2006-07-03 20:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be asking yourself this question not a bunch of strangers. Do you think that you should have sex with this guy? Are you interested in having a realtionship or just sex? This is up to you. Just make sure you think everything through before you regret someting.
2006-07-03 20:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not indicate your age. If you have to ask...the answer is no. Wait wait wait. It never hurts to wait, when it comes to sex.
When you can answer the question without asking a bunch of online strangers, then you will know what to do.
2006-07-03 20:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've known the guy for four years, i seriously doubt he would think of you as a sl*t if you "came onto him" can you imagine how much sexual frustration he has been harboring for the past four years? why don't you find out.
2006-07-03 20:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by tim e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find out in due time. You are merely talking now. Enjoy this sweet time. Take your time. It'll be that much sweeter later.
2006-07-03 20:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time get to know him more (it's different from friends and relationship) then after more time of knowing him then make the decision on what you want to do.
2006-07-03 20:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, go for it. Don't forget to share details with us afterwards.
2006-07-03 20:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared that things could get REALLY awkward
2006-07-03 20:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by blue_munkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because it'll never live up to your fantasies.
2006-07-03 20:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋