how do you cope with utter rejection from start? I loved or like or whatever dont ***** about it someone for 7 years now, spanning from 7th to the end of my high school years.... To only find out at the end, that shes straight up lesbain, and just hasnt told anyone.
How do you cope that -_-
I feel like ive totally wasted my time on something that was impossible to be possible from start. I feel like the problem wasnt me but my gender.
Im not thinking of a sex change if thats what your wondering..
Why did i have to fall in love with her -_-
2006-07-03 20:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you think its a good thing for you that you don't have to go for a girl, you don't have to live with a girl who doesn't totally in love with you. From now on you'll be able to know girls better.
2006-07-03 20:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, Move on. Forget about her. The more quickly you do this the better off you will be. If you had good times with her remember those, Its all about life experience and learning. Not its time to move along. Just think about the advise you would give to a very good friend of yours who just told you this story.
Then take your own advise.
2006-07-04 03:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can be in love with someone weither or not theres an attraction. Maby she loves you too....just not in that way. I wouldnt regret it...just learn from it. Do you really think that you were'are in love with her??? And if so why??? I think you should tak those quailites that she has and compare that to the girls you date.....You'll find that special person some day....
2006-07-04 03:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Miss C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you didn't waste any more time than you did. Consider it a learning experience and move on.
2006-07-04 03:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 years is too much..
so just try to stay away so u can get over her coz i know how much it hurts to love someone that is impossible for u to hav...
im so sorry : (
2006-07-04 03:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by plosom_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw..:( Im sorry, I kow that sucks for you. Did she know you loved her? If not do you ever want to let her know?
Just some questions you might want to ponder..
2006-07-04 03:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont have to fall in love with a person.....we just do it........ without thinkin without knowin
dont worry maybe ull find some one much better
(just make sure shes not u know what)
2006-07-04 03:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by lost_n_forlorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a disappointment and an insult for you.
2006-07-04 03:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least she told you that she was a lesbian
2006-07-04 03:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesbian do not exist
2006-07-04 03:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by aristidetraian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋