Most guys say they want a nice, decent girl to go out with, and yet when they find this person, they leave her for a slutty one most of the time. Why is this? Are guys really that desperate to quickly have sex with some slutty girl that they would sacrifice the decent girl?
2006-07-03 20:30:54 · 51 answers · asked by dewdropinn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its funny because i feel that way..i am such a sweet..nice..cool..female..like the "wifey" relationship type..to give the guy 100%..respectful..classy..everything you know? but it seems as though i have such bad luck. it seems as though they leave me (the relationship classy respectful type) for a female they coud just call at 3am to have sex with and i dont understand..you know what i think thats the children in these BOYS that we deal with. when they are older or the 1 in a million thats out there they have grown out of that and they realize that its not fun and it gets old after a while. i know most guys say they want a nice decent girl..yeah thats the kind they want to marry and bring home to there mom..but they want the slutty girls to be with at night and be able to call at 3am..see it goes lilke that with us females..we say we want a nice guy that will give us the world but when the sweetest guys come to us like that and approach us..do we want him? no..and its crazy..because what we search for we ignore..what we want..or what we THINK we want..it winds up we dont want it..so as humans i think we get confused..we are never satisfied..we can want a manchon and a bmw..buy it..own it..and live like that for a while and then a few months later we yet to find more things we desire..or different things..so now we are unsatisfied with that..when a guy leaves a good girl for a slutty one..i dont see anything she can offer him..i sit here and wonder "why her"...i sit there and think (okay she doesnt have nothing on me..or she cant offer him anything i cant)...im more classy..i have more to offer..im more mature..you see what im saying..but still he picks her!? why?! maybe because she doesnt speak her mind..maybe because she will come through 3am whenever he calls and says comeover..maybe because she wants the same things he wants...a midnight booty call and no commitment..no one to ask him "where you at"..."what you doing"..."whos that on the phone"..you see what im sayng? its sad that guys think like that..i tell them i hope there ("friend") falls off for messing with all those different kind of females. then in the end..maybe the guy think he makes the wrong desicision.."you never know what you had unti its no longer yours". think of it this way..its not your fault..find someone who wants the same things you want..dont settle for less..dont let him confuse you of what YOU want..dont let him change you..i can go on and on forever..im sure you get the point..hope i helped
2006-07-03 20:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, these guys might not see the girl as slutty. She says all the right things, and does all the right moves. If a guy came up to you and told you he'd give you everything you dreamed of, you'd probably go for it. It works the same way. A slutty girl dangles her body in front of a guy, it's just like offering up exactly what they want... and sometimes to get what you want, you sacrifice things like personality. In the end, they don't keep the girl though. It's kind of a karma thing.
2006-07-03 20:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A slutty girl is quite more alike with a guy, in personality, than what you call a "decent" woman.
The sex part is not all of it. Conventionnal girls most often are either pain in the a** (moody, whiny...) or boring. Slutty girls can be total b*tches of course, but in general they spice up a guy's life sexually as well as emotionally.
By the way, Most ladies also prefer bad boys to p*ssies ;-).
2006-07-03 20:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't "like" slutty girls. They like what they get from slutty girls. When most guys are serious about settling down, they will toss aside the sluts and notice the nice girls. This is just how many guys are. Try attracting those nice guys in the first place!
2006-07-03 20:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general guys like sex. In many cases having sex with a so called slutty girl eliminates the committment that most girls/women expect along with sex. So yes...guys are definitely that desperate to have hot and slutty sexwith most any slutty girl that will provide it.
Of course this is a general statement. Many guys want committment and are not looking for slutty sex, just they guys you date.
2006-07-03 20:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them are, yeah. It's a sad fact of life that men struggle with this all the time. Example- Brad leaves nice Jen for slutty Angelina. It happens all the time. They want nice and slutty in the same package and that's pretty hard to find.
2006-07-03 20:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want some. Its the truth. Guys really really like sex. A slutty girl won't require commitment. Hopefully guys will get over it eventually. Depending on who it is they will.
I think most guys really would like a real wonderful relationship, but commitment is scary to them.
2006-07-03 20:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by solitusfactum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they usually have low self-esteem and are not intimidating. I do not believe it's about performance because most men tell me that isn't an issue. It could be that they cheat and don't feel they deserve someone who doesn't or because they need a reason to be mad at a girl. They could be the same way. These girls act this way because they are treated this way by men or because they were probably troubled or traumatized in some real life ordeal from the past.
2006-07-03 20:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by cotterall&elaineadams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your name is the name of a bar in Soutbend IN. no kidding. And not all guys like slutty girls.
2006-07-03 21:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over the last few days I have answered loads of questions from guys asking "why do girls only want bad boys and **** all over nice guys?".
Not all girls want bad boys, and I don't believe that all guys want sluts.
Maybe you are looking at the wrong kind of guys?
Also, there are two old sayings:
1) "Women want their man to be a gentlemen in public and a caveman in the bedroom".
2) "Men want their women to be an angel in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom".
I believe strongly in those sayings and try to live them to the fullest!
2006-07-03 20:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, they don't like slutty girls. They just want sex. So, don't change who you are or what you stand for just to land a worthless man like that. No matter who that man ends up with, he'll never be faithful to her and what they have wouldn't be anything you'd want marriage wise.
You deserve much better!! So embrace who you are and what you stand for, you'll win in the end.
2006-07-03 20:38:51 · answer #11 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋