What are criterias we should look up for searching a girl to get married...??
I need all varieties of answers from you people for my future.
2006-07-03 20:22:03 · 10 answers · asked by atmurthii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What are criterias we should look up for searching a girl to get married...??
Since it is a arranged marriage I should have some criteria to specify to my parents
I need all varieties of answers from you people for my future.
2006-07-03 21:55:08 · update #1
First you must know what kind of girl/woman attracts you physically and mentally. Those are both very important to a marriage. You need to know what her parents and siblings are like because she will have similar traits. I mean if her mom is 5' tall and 5' wide chances are she will be to. So make your list with these things in mind. If there is no physical attraction sex will get boring really fast. No mental compatability and there will be problems. You want someone who will stimulate you mentally and physically, someone who will never be boring to you. Someone with some like interests and some different interests, someone who is willing to accept you with all of your little idiosyncracies, and someone whom you can accept as well. Love can grow over time, but trust and respect will have to come up front.
2006-07-15 09:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by osirissk8rboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard for Cultures that don't believe in or don't abide by arranged marriages. Though I personally come from a culture that does not do arranged marriages, I know generations ago it happened in the parts of Europe that my parents are from. Firstly, I would ask your parents to think about you before they make a decision with your future. If you are a funloving carefree guy, look for a girl that will suit you, not that has a larger dowry etc. Ask them to look inside of themselves and to truely know you as their son, speak to them, speak from your heart, tell them what you like about yourself and what you don't, then guide them in the direction. Arranged marriages are sometimes a good thing, with the divorce rate at 50% + in most cultures, it's nice to join with someone and discover things together, knowing that the families believed that these two children can make it work. Remember, just talk to your parents openly, ask them not to judge you and what you have to say, ask them to really hear you. Good luck
2006-07-13 22:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
2006-07-14 15:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst searching for existence companion, the 1st element is seems, they could desire to have an interest in you. this occurs everywhere in nature. as quickly as the preliminary charm is over then comes the time to electrify the different occasion to lead them to experience you have greater intensity than looks. For this you need to have a speeding character and the terrific suited concepts-set. Then comes the mating era and the settling era once you're required to be loving, being concerned, in charge, know-how and truthful. the main serious i think is loving or 'love', that's variety of the sum of each and all of the above.
2016-11-01 04:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question is stupid. You cant have criterias to marry somebody. it just happens. the girl you may never think of can be your wife oneday. Here is one criteria for you how about love?????
2006-07-03 20:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by mrsimportant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be stubbed when u find one Ur heart will teal u that one is the one then the next u have to make hI'm say oh that the one im looking for in my all my life
2006-07-03 21:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by more 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not believe in an arranged marriage...but, my advice would be
children...how many? when will you start? what faith will you bring them up in?
money...who will earn the major amount? who will spend it? what if you cannot agree on how it should be spent?
disagreements...who will settle them? what happens if you cannot agree?
2006-07-12 22:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inteligence, ability to communicate, and shares some of your interests.
2006-07-15 10:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kristin W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be listed on Google, so you can find her!
2006-07-14 19:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by TrickMeNicely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to this website
www.findyourperfectlifepartner.com
2006-07-03 21:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by kavya k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋