Men will never learn to not get married. There is no need to anymore. In fact, it's scary to be with a woman period. My ex cheated, my friends wife did, my other friend's fiancee did.
And also legally, a woman has a right to put your kid up for adoption(if you're not married), even if you want to raise the child yourself. Legal kidnapping.
Also, statistically, 1 out of every 10 children are raised by a man who thought he was the biological father, but actually isn't.
If you have kids, you're going to be extremely financially burdened despite the fact that you didn't put yourself in this situation. In some states, you might even have to pay alimony if she cheated.
Women cheat more than men now statistically... and get all the money. Just look at porn from now on.
2006-07-03 20:04:15 · 14 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This doesn't include the fact that I get a married woman hitting on me everytime I go out.
2006-07-03 20:04:52 · update #1
For Jbob: women actually only cheat 'as much' as men, instead of more(but I had seen a prior statistic that I can't find now where it was more but a negligible amount more): http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=47772
Honestly, I don't care to spend anymore time finding the other statistic. It was an article in the Economist, regarding diminishing population in the future and divorce concerns, and I'm not going to find which particular magazine it was.
2006-07-03 21:19:02 · update #2
WebMD with AOL Health Poll
Have you ever cheated on your spouse?
44% No
26% Yes, I've cheated on my husband
18% Yes, I've cheated on my wife
13% No, I'm not married
Total votes: 102,762
http://aolsvc.health.webmd.aol.com/content/Article/90/100725.htm
2006-07-03 21:30:46 · update #3
I knoe girls can be bitc.... but were not all like that. I have been cheated on, and caught a couple bofriends flirting hard with girls at work. Its difficult to get over. So I think people cheat because they have no respect for others, and you have to stay away from those people. Which not every one in this world cheats, guy or girl. If you are from a party state ,like me (cali) its especially hard to find someone, where ther are so many options people just cant seem to make up their minds.what I dont understand is why someone would even be in a serious relationship if their not ready to settle down If your ready to settle down dont pick a party girl ,get a good girl who will respect you. Now if your a partyer yourself then your probily picking girls who dont care about anything but themselves. anyway you dont look like someone who has a hard time getting girls
2006-07-03 20:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, long story.
U just met the wrong ONE that's why u got all these bad experiences.
Have u heard a story about the origin of man & woman? It is said like this: Long long time ago, man & woman are in one, they share the same body and they lived happily on the Earth. But afterwards they got more aggresive and even intend to take over the heaven. The GOD is angry and spit them apart as a punishment. From then on, they are finding the other half which belongs to them originally. That's why u will get know a few partners first then break up till u find the right one. Even after u found the right one, u 2 may have quarrells and not that compatable, this is because u are seperated for too long time, so it takes some time to get along again and become one.
So how is this story? Long enough? Even though it may not be true, but i just find it beautiful and convincable. It gives me more courage to face my problems and deal with the differences between my partner.
2006-07-03 20:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some good women out there, just like there are good men out there. I used to feel that way about men because I had similar experiences from the opposite gender. I can see how you would look at this and say the hell with all women, but I know for a fact that not all women cheat. Some really do want a good true relationship. Women have been filtering through guys forever trying to find a faithful one. I think it might just be catching up and the women are saying the hell with men, let me just get what I want and go. I do agree with the unfair advantage they have when it comes to children.
2006-07-03 20:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes alot of ppl cheat,alot of man and woman,but it dosent mean that now days its not possible to meet someone honest and who will b with u for good and bad...Yea its very hard to meet person like that.Even tho if U r in relation u will b scared 2 trust the person u r with ,especially after seeing what ppl do around,having lovers ect.
But well im sure its possible 2 find a right person,just belive in it and wait (it dosent mean sit home and wait till she knock in yr door ),but be open for new relationship and don't think every girl u meet she is a cheater,if U give her everything she need (i don't mean extreme things like she wanna castle :P) then its smaller chance that she would do sth like that...The reason why i wouldn't cheat if i get marry some day is that I'm scared of God,its really a big sin to cheat on yr wife/husband... so its why i wouldn't do it never.Good luck and i hope i helped u lil :)
2006-07-03 20:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos they likely love one yet another. it may take position... in straightforward words marry biracial adult males? shall we are saying you've a decision between a biracial and a black/white guy; the biracial guy replaced into is jerk, and that a black/white guy is nicely mannered, nicely groomed and loved you completely like no different guy might want to? ok that answer will be "you do not love them lower back" (cos he ain't biracial), so hence you'll stay unmarried shall we substitute it somewhat... think you've been blind? that query is to everyone else who'd in straightforward words evaluate one race you assert that they finally end up having 3/4 black youngster. So? You father and mom began the technique...
2016-11-05 21:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by deller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you are attracted to the wronge women.
People get bored with their lives sometimes.
not to say you can stereotype cheaters but you need to find someone who will not have a reason to cheat.
I'v never cheated but have had many chances.
I;v never been married but one day would like to be with the right man.
Getting married doesn;t mean you have to have children but if you do make sure you can support it.
You'll find someone one day who may not be your perfect ideal match but atleast will love you enough to be faithful...
2006-07-03 20:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by nina_aka_babydoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you post the same crap as an answer and a question?
haven't you just about ground that entire ax to oblivion by now?
how is it exactly that a man who has kids didn't "put himself in that situation?"
I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences that they've left you too bitter to allow the possiblity of happiness. how sad and self-defeating.
2006-07-03 20:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by answer faerie, V.T., A. M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me this can go two ways, dont be so self centered here bud, show me a man who dont`t lie to his other half, that respects her, thats there for her, I bet if you ask many females..they will tell you whats its like to be cheated on and lied to.
2006-07-03 20:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Weeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to know where you get your statistics. Try getting some acurate ones and ask your question again.
2006-07-03 20:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by emily_rose_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny,Fine and Flirtaious
2006-07-03 20:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by mrsbogan1019 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋