We have such a blast together!Go on bike rides, rollerblading, going driving. Just..anything. We have SO many plans, and it all just seems to work. I KNOW that he likes me, but I dont really know what to say without being pushy about it. Cause we've already talked about it, so he already knows how I feel! I want so bad just to be his girlfriend. But im not going to force him into the relationship, I want to KNOW that he feels the same way about me. I've known him for....well..9-10 years...we've been great friends for about 5-6 of those years. Sometimes when its just him and I..I just want to hug him or kiss him, and tell him everything that I feel, but it would be too awkward at the same time, simply because..I dont know EXACTLY how he feels..and I want him to make the first move! Its soo COMPLICATED!! I just..I guess, I just don't want to keep on guessing what he thinks, or making every moment that he's sitting RIGHT NEXT to me a question mark. I want to KNOW that I can hold his hand!
2006-07-03 19:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by luvly_chick18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would just talk to him and tell him how you feel, im sure he feels the same way, good luck
2006-07-03 19:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by alliewv30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a move,But before you do that ask yourself is it worth it if he stop wanting to do those things. I say you'll never know until you try. And on the other hand maybe he's doing that because he feels the same way about somebody-else and he's not acting on it hoping she will do what your wanting him to do which is make the first move. Uncomplicated you need to know you can't keep putting yourself through that type of mess, cause that what it is is mess.
2006-07-03 19:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the starting up, i understand i'm not a guy yet i'm gonna answer anyhow. It truly relies upon on the type of guy. yet yeah various adult males like probability free ladies, and some like dumb ladies who pretend the have a mind of a 5 year old. yet maximum adult males are not often interested in the type of woman who "pretends" to be dumb and probability free for a precise courting considering i might want to maintain in mind that they'd surely get uninterested in that type of woman considering she acts like she would not understand a few thing. And the adult males ur conversing about likely in straightforward words provide her that type of interest at the same time as she's round becuz they understand they could surely use her and then promote off her. Sooo yeah
2016-11-05 21:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by deller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he looking at other girls? a man's interest needs to be measured in the amount of time he spends with a particular person.... it seems that you and he are together alot... i would say, that after being together so long as friends, he is afraid to bridge that gap because he has your friendship at least and that is more than he would get if you turned him down. you want him to make the first move... he did... he spends all of his time with you instead of going out for someone else... you need to jump him... grab your happiness by the horns and have fun with it.... sic em... and when it is all said and done, whether you and he work out or not, it sounds like your friendship could last anyway... and if it doesn't, you won't be totally blinded by him so as to not see someone else right there before you.
2006-07-03 19:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by nimkiw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes guys a while to come around and see the picture. The worst thing in the world is waiting around on the internet or by the phone for that guy to leave you a message. I know how you feel; but you should wait for him to make a move. No matter how timid a guy, if he can't make the move on you then he doesn't deserve you!
2006-07-03 19:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by beauvoir_babe1865 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to say he needed sometime and now you gotta say to him that you have waited and you wanna take it to the next step. If he says he needs more time you juss go to find someone else. It may take a few days. If he sounds good with that than you can figure out from there. Sit down and talk to him.
2006-07-03 19:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think the anticipation and all the confusion and mystery kind of lengthen a relationship, and its all necessary, maybe instead of wondering what he's thinking or feeling. i'm guessing he's shy and maybe you should try something, thats always a good way to start.
2006-07-03 19:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by lemonsquare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make the first move. he might just be feeling to shy tward you to know what to do. or just ask him as blunt as possible. ask him if thier is a chance for you to be with him. you'll kinda be forced to put him on the spot if you really want to know. some times waiting to long will just make it harder.
2006-07-03 19:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So just Kiss him you make the move and plant a big wet one right on the mouth.
2006-07-03 19:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him on it or, just start acting like your losing your interest in him. If he really nice you, he'll start reacting in it or, you'll just have to face the music that, you read him all wrong in, the first place.
2006-07-03 20:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by currdog3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋