I'm 27 never married with no kids. The name that i am currently dating is 39,divorce with 2 kids. We have only been dating for 6 months but i have very strong feelings for him and i would like to make our relationship a serious one but he seems to enjoy only dating (having sex) me with no mention of the future. Am I wasting my time waiting for him to decide that he was a serious relationship. I eventually want to settle down have babies but he seems to be content casually dating me.Should I break it off.
2006-07-03 19:00:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're the rebound.
he will never marry you, he is just enjoying his freedom and for the moment you happen to be the main course. Move on or if you can distance yourself from the emotions just enjoy the sex.
2006-07-03 19:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From talking with some of my female friends that have experienced the same thing is that they are not ready to give up there freedom and settle down again. They just want sex and usually once divorced it takes a min. 5 years for them to really get over there EX. Plus old habits never die.
2006-07-03 19:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Galaxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say to break it off if he only be in it for the sex cause 1.it means he dont really love you and 2.he's never gonna let the relationship get serious
2006-07-03 19:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jonathan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break it off, it seems like he might have tried the settle down thing and then disliked it (leading too divorce?) or maybe the divorce led him too not want another serious relationship..who knows. Either way your not getting any younger and if you want kids GET TOO IT lol
2006-07-03 19:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by tampabay5400 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I don't want to be mean to you. But I think you might want to consider breaking off with him. Personally, I believe it'll be better for you.
It's seems fishy, cuz he's not mentioning anything abt the future, especially both of you and in this intimate stage. He's committment to his ex wife shows something abt he character.
You deserve someone better. I believe there's someone better for you.
Take care.
2006-07-03 19:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and ask him what he sees in the future for you and him, that will be the best indicator for you. If you like what he tells you and you really believe him, then stay with him. If you don't like what you hear, show him to the door and say Goodbye.
2006-07-03 19:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by chijarhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As him about taking it to the next level and if it isn't what you want to hear then leave because you are wasting your time...If you guys are just dating, which is mainly sexual, then you aren't happy and he is...That isn't going to work.
I know exactly what you are going thru because I just made the decision to get rid of someone in my life. I was in a similar situation.
Good luck.
2006-07-03 19:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should bring up the topic before just dropping him on his head like that, it will seem to come out of nowhere to him if you don't.
If you want more commitment, *you* have to bring it up. Don't just freak out and run away, that makes no sense.
2006-07-03 19:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by mills_pow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes break it off come let me stomp u at madden then we can get married (that is my favorite game ) e mail some way to hook up with you and we can play on line some time if you wish
2006-07-03 19:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chuck him.
he is using you.
trust me.
i know the type.
i've been the type.
it is hard for a guy to start a serious relationship with someone he is just screwing.
2006-07-03 19:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by nimkiw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋