I am 19 and have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. He is 22. I am so in love with him, and i know he feels the same. Im just a bit unsure that im too young for such a serious relationship. He is very protective and i have already lost contact with a lot of my firends, as i feel bad if i dont spend every spare minute with him. Our sex life is amazing and i am very much attracted to him. He gets angry really easily tho, and is very insecure about my past - i wasnt a virgin b4 him, and it breaks his heart! What do you think of my situation? Appreciate it :o)
2006-07-03 18:56:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well lets get one thing straight.... there is a big difference between being protective and being controlling. so you need to think about it and figure out which category he falls under. if he is controlling it only gets worse. and what does he get angry for? and he has no right to get mad about your past sex life, you didn't know that you were going to be with him then.... was he with anyone b4 you? but any way you have to let him know that you love him if hes the one that you want to be with, but let him know that no on can change the past and even if you could that you wouldn't because it made you who you are today
2006-07-04 07:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by blondebtch24 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, don't ever alienate anybody in your life for your boyfriend. If he really loves you he would want you to have friends and spend your time equally between the two. Second, in my opinion you are too young for a very serious relationship but that is just something that you have to experience for yourself to really know. How can he get mad about you not being a virgin before you got together??? That makes no sense. Why is he with you then? he can't get mad at you for things you did when you didn't even know him. That is ridiculous!!! He sounds like he is is very controlling and angry and I say get out now you're so young there are PLENTY of other guys. And by the way good sex isn't that hard to find. Hope this made sense and helped a little.
2006-07-04 02:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by decembersweetgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he a virgin before you and him got together? if not then what gives him the privilege to be angry with you? I am 21 and was in a similar relationship when I was 15 we stayed together for 4 years, I love him still but it isn't worth you being isolated from the individuals in your life who really love you, that only creates more problems, I mean try and help him with is insecure issues often times men hold on to pass relationships and never go through the healing process, if you are welling to help him heal which sometimes can be very hard then stick with him if not you have a wonderful live awaiting you. Take care of yourself
2006-07-04 02:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on he sounds like a psycho. They all start with taking your friends away. Then get mad about your sex life... Then distant you more and more. He's just going to get worse. My friend is in a similiar relationship. He's controlling. Right now it seems kinda ok but it'll take a turn no doubt in my mind. Don't take it all as him being cute cause he is protective he's insecure.
2006-07-04 02:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i bet u r 2 pretty 2 have a guy like him he is way to controlling if he wont even let u talk or hang out with them then dump him date someone a lil younger but there is a lot of fish in the sea good luck with everything
2006-07-04 19:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like the sound of your relationship. i know you don't want to hear this but even though you love him you should get out of it while u still can. i have a friend whose life was ruined because of the same thing. she married and he ended up controlling her every move. she almost lost all her friends. she did get a divorce and is now happy. you should just save yourself the trouble and break up with him.
2006-07-04 02:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hollybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I CAN SAY IS THIS:
True love never keep records of wrong. It always forgives. It respects, it protects and it gives a lot of breathing space for both to grow and develop.
Maybe it will help if both of you talk about the things I mentioned.
All the best.
2006-07-04 02:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very protective, lost friends, gets angry easy, insecure about your past now what do you think about your situation?
2006-07-04 02:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, he's too controling. So you weren't a virgin, big deal, I bet he wasn't either but he didn't have a problem with that.
There are better guys out there, don't you deserve one?
2006-07-04 02:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. He sounds like a future abuser. It might be better if you left him. If he loves you then he would let you see your friends now and then. You might want to slow things down.
2006-07-04 02:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋