If you pick brains/personality then your mate might be unattractive or poor or both, etc....
Defend the choice you would make.
2006-07-03 18:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need to laugh. I need to think. I thrive on another's wit and intelligence. He can be ugly as a beaver and poor as a cat as long as he has wit and intelligence and can make me laugh like no body's business. And then the next minute pose a question that makes me delve deep within myself to seriously think about the truths of mankind. This is the kind of man I could spend a lifetime with!
2006-07-05 09:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Money doesnt make the Man....Looks and age fade as time goes by... which only leaves brains/personaily!! If someone had brains..They would sit comfortably ..and a personality to charm the pant right off ya! :) In beginners modeling school they will teach you that a good personily, people will see you diffrently it will make a ugly person beautiful to many :)).... I been poor, and I was around those extreamly rich, and today they will run from me...because there personality SUCKS, they are arrogant and self centered, and will be the first to laugh at a poor person (In real) because they are "NOT rich enough" or CANT DO" ..while endorcing their images, yet many of us dont see that side of them. Id rather be around those caring with a sence of humor, then those who dont give ratts *** other then themselves
2006-07-03 18:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Weeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brains and a personality are the most important. You cant have a relationship with a beautiful bump on a log. However ther is nothing wrong with wanting a good looking mate. I mean there has to be physical attraction in a relationship for it to work.
2006-07-03 18:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
brains/ personality, definitely. with the right personality it can make you see past other things, and you really get bored talk to a stupid hot guy. yeah you could use him for awhile but you gonna get bored or heaven forbid try to make it into a "real" talking relationship and realize that he is a total idiot after your already five months pregnant, and whats going to happen to that baby? is he gonna leave it somewhere like a bar???? as far as taking the risk of him being unattractive or poor, these things don't matter, poor can be fixed. and personality can keep you attracted to some one.
2006-07-03 18:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by lady_ebs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brains/personality: First off, looks go with age, and status is nothing if they have a horrible personality. So I would very much have to say that I could never just go for those, they are just a bonus.
2006-07-03 18:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't my mate have the whole package like you? Lol. I am going to be shallow on this one and go for riches/status. I have had the other choices and am finding them to be overrated. I,m not exactly "in love with love" right now. So show me the money.
2006-07-04 04:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brains and personality. Not even tempted by the rest. I love to talk and laugh and have sex. Looks and money don't do anything for those things. Brains makes the best sexual aid and personality makes me laugh on the off chance we are not having sex.
2006-07-05 16:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is absolutely wonderful ... winning personality, genius level intelligence, a professional musician.
I think he is gorgeous, others might not, I don't care. He is 13 years older than I am, doesn't matter to me. And we struggle financially, and likely always will, but that is okay too ... we have a roof, food, a car, the things we most want.
What I am saying is ... it's who the person is that matters, not what they look like, and not what they have. When you lose everything ... and it happens more than you think ... what is left? Just the person that you are, and the person that you love.
2006-07-03 18:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd pick brains and personality. But riches and status is a close 2nd.
2006-07-05 08:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by itty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say personality,cause if she got it then she probably got the brains and looks is not always that important and age is only a number and for being rich,money isnt everything especially if you love your mate.hopes that answers your question.
2006-07-03 18:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋