i'm a big guy i've tryed to loose weight but nothing has worked and with the way the world is. i'm looked down on as an outcast and i'm about at wits end.when is the world going to realise that we all can't be supermodle size. i see every day women who are treated badly by there signifignat other who will stay in that situation rather than not have some show peice by there side when they go out.like i said im just about to give up so please someone give me a good answer
2006-07-03 18:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by bigrigdvr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok justmemimi i'm not 60 i'm 37
2006-07-03 18:27:19 · update #1
and no i don't only look at the super model size women i just want one who isn't looking for a hand out and isn't into head games
2006-07-03 18:29:40 · update #2
stop caring what other ppl think of u, i did along time ago and it makes life easier, when u find the right person to spend ur life with they wont care what u look like, just the fact that u r u
2006-07-03 18:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by branmcin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people are like that. I look at whats inside as apose to whats on the outside. And ive been with a few not so looking guys. Maybe you are just big boned, but, still have some extra weight to lose, which, might be a little hard at first, but it will soon become easy. Maybe go to the gym, or hire a personal trainer or something. This isn't just for the reason for people to find you attractive, but also for your own health. Just work out as hard as you can, and eat healthier. If you hire a personal trainer they will also teach you how to eat healthier, and control your eating. You will find someone eventually, goodluck :)
2006-07-03 18:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey guy im not gonna give you a answer u want 2 hear but a good answer. first i would like to say that around 90% of peole look at physical first. now imma break it down. if you seen a girl wit a huge scar down her face with some burn maks on her would you really approach her as if u wanted a date? i doubt it. now here's the thing you might say, i see plenty of ugly people with someone. true that is because they didnt start of as saying to themselves i want to date him/her they were some kind of friend and found out they had a lot in common. that is what makes actuall couples click. its just that the physical is the thing that makes you want to find out about a person. there are plenty of good looking girls that have nasty personalities which is just as bad as an ugly girl, its just tha fact that its worth a try to have a goodlookin girl and a good personality rather than shooting for a ugly girl with a good personality. its just a shallow world my friend. maybe you should shoot for slighty bigger girls and that way you could work out together and she'll look better and you will and you both win................if the personality is also there ,,,,,,good luck
2006-07-03 18:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by internet_mack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people nowadays are superfical and most only care about what is one the outside because that is what everyone else sees. I know people who have tried almost everything and once they stopped stressing about what others thought they seemed to be happier and some started to lose some of the weight. So, just have some patience the right person will come to yuo when you are ready and the world will know know it by the way you walk and act.
2006-07-03 18:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by mc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean with "about to give up"?....just because you didn't meet the right person, yet? Did you ever look twice at a big sized girl, yet?...or do you also only prefer the super model size?
You sound like you are 60 years old...not big sized. Why does it have to happen now? Instant gratification...everything has to happen now. Wait....and in the meantime ...loose some weight...not for them, but for yourself....
2006-07-03 18:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man not everyone is shallow although it seems that way sometimes. Dont get down bro. There is a girl out there that will appriciate all you have to offer. Just be confident and comfortable with yourself and that will appeal to some girls. Be outgoing and fun and nice to everyone and you will come out on top in the end. Good luck bud.
2006-07-03 18:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are womens who like mens of your size. you are looking for love in the wrong place dont think if you are a big guy you will attract a small frame woman you have to go after the big and beautiful womens they are out there but before you do learn to love your self and never love anyone more than you love your self you are going to be just fine GOD bless
2006-07-03 18:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be one of those women who went for the hot looking "bad boy" type. It took years before I realized what I was missing. There are so many incredible, sensitive, funny, intelligent, warm and wonderful men out there. I am very thankful I finally grew up.
2006-07-03 18:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by kittenxluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shallowness! Don't worry; at some point, a beautiful person will realize that they're missing something important; and you will be discovered! Wish I were younger; I'd be there for you' but I'm too old for you!
2006-07-03 18:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are shallow. Its hard to find people that look past appereance, but believe me, one day you will. You will find the perfect person for you. Its hard for some people to look past what someone looks like, but there are some of us out there.
2006-07-03 18:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋