2006-07-03 17:40:59 · 19 answers · asked by thundermonkey12194 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would caution to realize that there is a difference between love and infatuation. Sure entertain a date and enjoy yourself if he is willing to take you out but I believe that love takes time and is revealed in time and not right up front at first. Sure there is love at first sight but many times as you get to know a person better the accumulation of information you get about this person, their likes, dislikes, beliefs etc .. sometimes add up to be someone you don't love as much. You never will know unless you take the chance to go out but be careful enough to allow love to develop and enjoy infatuation for that's a wonderful feeling to have when it comes.
2006-07-03 17:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by alagk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date a guy unless you are first friends with him. You'd be surprised how deceptive first impressions can be or how much "game" some guys have. If he's really into you, make him work to get you. Go out in groups of friends for a while and stick to public places. Don't let yourself be swept away into pre-mature romantic notions. Remember the last time your heart was broken by some guy who seemed like he would be charming? Have you ever been lied to or cheated on by a guy? Do you know what the guy's real motives are unless you know him? Always take every measure to protect yourself and your heart. If it's meant to be, it will be--and it will still work out even if you take things the "old fashioned" slow way.
2006-07-04 00:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, let's go through some of the points here...
a. Is he dining alone?
b. Did he give any indication that he's into you i.e a smile? a look?
c. Is he the waiter/ customer? Am confused, lol.
Though to love someone at first sight... wow that's huge. Are you sure it wasn't lust? ;P Ok seriously, if he hasn't done any of the above, it's probably not a good idea.
I know, not the answer you're looking for. I'm old fashioned. I like the thrill of the chase. If the guy's into you, he should walk up and ask. Not the other way round.
2006-07-04 00:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should date them but not because you love them. You do not know that yet cos you JUST met. You should date them to get to know them better and then decide from there if u love them!
2006-07-04 00:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by singaporegirljuly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u just met the guy how can u love him
2006-07-04 00:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by bigtyme352 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is a restrant? Actually, your whole question makes no sense.
2006-07-04 00:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just met him... how can you love him already??? If you want to get to know him - then date him... but don't go losing your head over someone you just met.
2006-07-04 00:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Do You Love someone You Just Met?????????
2006-07-04 00:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by lovetta_patterson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you just met this guy, i dont think you could be in love with him!!! but if you really think that you like them then i think that you should go out with them... just be careful! i think you might wanna get to know this person a bit more befor eyou go out with them
2006-07-04 00:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your question I think you're too young to date much less love somebody.
2006-07-04 00:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋