there's this guy that i have been talking to for about a month now, he told me likes me but we can't be together because he wants to be friends with benefits. he told me he doesn't want to hurt me but if i want that, he is all for it, should i take on the offer or move on?
2006-07-03 17:38:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, The only reason he wants to be your friend is for the benifits. You don't need friends like that- he only wants to use you. Find yourself a friend who likes you for who you are- not what they can get out of you, then you're on the road to true love & happiness!
2006-07-05 04:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 12⤊ 1⤋
MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!! Your better than that. You deserve nothing but the best. Find a guy who likes you for you and want's to know everything about you. A friend with benefits is great if your just looking for the benefits part, but if you want more, don't even give him the time of day
2006-07-03 17:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by JackieH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have recently been presented with the same exact problem. If you take him up on teh offer don't expect it to make him want to be your BF, cause why date you to get what he is already getting. If you don't take him up on the offer you are telling him you are not easy and that may make him trust you and want to date you, or it may make him mad and he won't ever talk to you again. I still don't know what I am going to do. But if you just want to be with him in some way then by all means go for it. But now you do know he is attracted to you, but he also is thinking that you are atleast a little easy, and if he doesn't respect you more than that move on. SO NOW YOU ARE PROBABLY MORE CONFUSED THEN EVER SORRY, BUT THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN THINKING.
2006-07-03 17:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, and move on! Friends, with benefits, is a very convenient cop out for a guy!
2006-07-03 17:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the offer if you want, this guy doesn't sound like good quality relationship material anyway. He has some maturing to do. If you want a relationship then look elsewhere.
2006-07-03 17:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but he might like you...but he dosen't want anyone to know it...you're like a booty call if you keep up with this crap. He's using you for his pleasure and it's not fair if your heart is in it! If it's not then have some fun and move on to the next hunk!
2006-07-03 17:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sophia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!!!! "Friends with Benefits" is his nice way of saying to you that he sees you as a good lay when the urge hits him. Have more self respect for yourself!! You don't need this jerk!
2006-07-03 17:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends on what you want. Is that what you want, can you just be friends with benefits and not start to have romantic feelings for him.
2006-07-03 18:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by jslick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all up to you but if you really honestly like the guy for more than a **** buddy, then i wouldn't do it cuz you will just get hurt in the end b/c he wont have the same feelings for you and it will be much harder to move on later
2006-07-03 17:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by ...here in my garden of magic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not be a frnd of a person who treats u as a benefit..u can have frndship with a better person than him.So what r waiting for just move on.
2006-07-03 17:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by funky boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there for like years. Don't bother. Your self worth is more than that. Don't let him treat you like that because I can tell you this. He will talk about you and tell his buddies that you are a side item. Tell him you have more respect for yourself and move on.
2006-07-03 17:43:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋