i want to be sexually active and everytime i think about somone gives me the sex talk and i stay a virgin for about to more weeks i am 15
2006-07-03 17:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously, when you find the right person it will be so special. I can 99% guarantee that that person is not someone you are dating now at 15. Don't have sex just for the sake of doing it, because it won't be good and you will regret it later when you meet someone perfect for you.
2006-07-03 17:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell y'what. I've known about forty women who started as young as you - and every last one of 'em regrets it! I'm a registered professional nurse with forty years clinical experience, and I've been involved in counselling/mental health for quite awhile.
Sure, and you have all the necessary equipment, and fer sure it all works. Y'want to be accepted and to prove you're grown up. So did all those other women I mentioned above. And once more - every one of them wishes with all her heart she had NOT started so soon. Well, let me amend that - six of them are now dead and their deaths directly related to their beginning sexual activity at so young an age. No, you do NOT need the details; it's hard enough just thinking about those women. They ALL forty thought it wouldn't happen to them and they'd never have any serious difficulties - well, they weren't immune, and niether are you. WAIT, fer cripes sakes, until you graduate from high school at the least. The guys ain't goin' nowhere; they'll be there for ya when you're REALLY ready!
2006-07-04 00:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to become active at 15? Why do you want it so bad? are your friends telling you what it is like for them? Are they telling you how much it hurt the first time? are they telling you how fast the guy had an orgasm and then was done? Are they telling you that it was wonderful? Look stay a virgin for a few more years. Sex at that young age isnt as great as your friends are telling you.
2006-07-04 00:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you are 15...... you should be a virgin! you are asking for a sex talk because kids your age don't know anything thing about it except that it feels good.
there is a lot more emotional responsibility that you are obviously not ready for
also sex is different for guys than it is for girls; you will give your body, your self value, to a guy who just wanted a piece of AZZ,and you well feel so worthless afterward, and then you are going to develop a pattern of it because you're gonna start to think that it is all you have to offer.
you have no idea how many girls that went out and lost their virginity just for the hell of it, who regret it now. they wish they could say they were still virgins. you are lucky to be where you are.
plus with with all the STDs like HVP and the like that are going around i know you don't want a dose of that. then you can't have sex at all really unless you want to be an irresponsible prick who gives STDs to people!
have sex in a monogamous relationship because you love someone and want you share and give the deepest expression of love to them; someone who deserves you. that is when it is right to have sex. don't have sex because you are curious and horny, because like they say "CURIOSITY KILLED THE CAT!!!"
2006-07-04 00:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Carly j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you are still young, wait till you find someone that you care about and they care about you too, i mean care, some guys can be jerks and only want you for sex, and doing it the first time can make you not ever want to lose the guy, but at such a young age you probably will and then you will be upset and depressed, plus theres the posiblility of stds and pregnancy, nothig is a 100%, and you are to young for a baby, and to live with an std, but if you think your ready to become sexually active, then go ahead, when you know your ready then i guess you are, and if you go for it always remember condoms and do birthcontrol, if your parnets disagree to bad, you dont need them to get birth control, good luck and think hard about it
2006-07-04 00:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by serinaty_constantine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT WAIT WAIT!!! If you have not been with anyone besides your spouse, you will not have anyone to compare them with......Trust me, it causes a lot of fights... AND you will not have to worry about STD'S////////// over 1/2 of our population has an STD. You learn as you get older that it does not matter if the person is "clean" or not. It only takes once...........Not to mention the fact that 15 is to young to have a baby!! You can wait!
2006-07-04 00:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by candispassion.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait...maybe not until you're married but make sure it's with someone you care about and OMG be careful, you dont want STD's or to get pregnant...guys are good at telling you what you want t hear just to get into your pants. Seriously, wait...or you'll regret it, I did.
2006-07-04 00:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have your whole life ahead of you, i know for sure you will regret it if you decide to have sex. it's such an amazing feeling to share your first time with your husband on your hunnymoon. i strongly encourage you to rethink having sex and to deff wait. if you have sex, you have to be ready to have a baby with this person.. so you have to make sure you are ready for that commitment as well.. you're only 15 you should be doing things your age..
2006-07-04 00:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who ever tells you to wait then they are telling you right.look at this way honey,when you are going to get married ,who wants some ones elses cast off girl.so please listen to them cause they are not trying to preach to you,they are just telling you for your own good.besides 15 is too young for sex and dont let the other girls talk you into something that you will regret some day.
2006-07-04 02:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set a goal, stay a virgin until you are 18.
2006-07-04 00:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋